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Old 02-05-2009, 08:48 AM
 
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Hey guys, Ive been talking to this very beautiful girl for a couple weeks now (we met in January). We talk almost every night on the phone and have gone out twice together and have plans for this weekend. Nothing has happen between us yet (kissing/sex) but we have a great time together, have a ton in common and our phone conversations are great. Im just not sure what to do for Valentines Day, if anything. Is it to early in the relationship to get her something for V Day? I guess where we are in the relationship is still talking and getting to really know each other phase. I don't want to seem to desperate (because im not) but I do like her.

Help!!!
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Old 02-05-2009, 08:52 AM
 
Location: Fiji
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How about you all going on a date on V-day? Maybe send her a little V-day themed card or one of those "e-cards" with a v-day theme asking her to be you valentine for that day. That way you can plan a date and conveniently combine it with some kind of valentine's theme without seeming too overbearing.

Just an idea....
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Old 02-05-2009, 08:58 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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Geez, everybody knows you don't start anything new between before Thanksgiving and after VD. Otherwise you find yourself in predicaments like yours.

On a more serious note, I agree with the opinion about going out and getting her a card and flowers perhaps. Judging by the timing of it, VD may very well turn into a memorable night!
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Old 02-05-2009, 09:09 AM
 
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Yeah, something small, I agree.

BTW, is your screen name from the Metallica song?
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Old 02-05-2009, 09:38 AM
 
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How about you all going on a date on V-day? Maybe send her a little V-day themed card or one of those "e-cards" with a v-day theme asking her to be you valentine for that day. That way you can plan a date and conveniently combine it with some kind of valentine's theme without seeming too overbearing.

Just an idea....
I was definitely going to ask her out on V Day. I was just thinking of surprising her with flowers being delivered to her house before we went out. Ladies, how would you feel if you were in this situation and the guy sent flowers to your house?
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Old 02-05-2009, 09:39 AM
 
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BTW, is your screen name from the Metallica song?
Yes it is.
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Old 02-05-2009, 01:44 PM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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Some non-rose flowers sent to her house would be a nice touch. Maybe say 'Thinking of You'.
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Old 02-05-2009, 02:31 PM
 
Location: Pennsylvania (NW)
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oh no roses are good, just stay away from RED at this point. you can mix in a few other flowers too.
and a small bunch
women love flowers.
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Old 02-05-2009, 02:36 PM
 
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How about a Vermont Teddy Bear? Just google "Vermont Teddy Bear Co."
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Old 02-05-2009, 02:39 PM
 
Location: Texas
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a single white rose has never done me wrong
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