A Drunk Woman Sat On My Husband's Lap (wife, married, women)
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Okay, so over the weekend, the husband and I, along with a few friends, all went out and got drunk. We went to a bar with just the two of us and our DD (younger male friend we've known for years), then to another bar to meet two friends, then to their house...(straight female and gay male roommate)
My husband doesn't drink too often, so he's not all that good at it.
When we went to the two friends' house (the gay guy is a semi- good friend, the other is a woman who is twice my age and who we have met at least a half dozen times but who we do not hang out with or know really. I actually went to school with her daughter, although she was younger than me and that's not really relevant here haha)
Anyway, we were all hanging out, and the drunk woman got REALLY drunk. SO drunk, in fact, that she sat her ass down on my husband's lap, started GRINDING on his you-know-what, and grabbed his hands and put them on her *******.
He started bouncing her up and down on his lap, but he held his hands toward me while she was grabbing them, so he wasn't really touching her *******. She was trying to rub his hands there, but I guess she was rubbing the BACK of his hands rather than his palms because of the way he was holding them. Anyway, in his defense, he did make eye contact with me the whole time -- I was literally sitting RIGHT across from them.
She then "whispered" -- loud enough that I could clearly hear her from where I was sitting -- and asked him "if he had a wife." Ummm, duh? I started saying really loudly, "Uh, yeah, he has a ****ING wife, who is RIGHT HERE!!!" She ignored me and kept trying to whisper...
I'm sorry to be a prude or whatever anyone wants to call me, but I was PISSED. Like, extremely. I got up, said I was going to the bathroom and said that she BETTER be off of my husband's lap before I get back...she's like this tiny underweight alcoholic who is half my size, and I wanted to throw her off of her own deck and beat the crap out of her, but I try to be classy...
Anyway, while I'm in the bathroom, my husband came in with this goofy smile on his face telling me that it was all innocent and that I shouldn't be mad and blah blah blah...
I said..."I WANT TO GO HOME RIGHT NOW, RIGHT THE **** NOW, NOW!!!!!"
Well, he seems to not understand why I was so upset, and he still doesn't. I have tried so hard, but I CANNOT get the image out of my mind of him bouncing that woman on his lap while she's doing all of that. In my opinion, he should have told her to GET THE **** OFF OF HIM, but he didn't. He acts like I'm mad about nothing. It's been almost 4 days, and I still feel distant from my husband and I still feel upset. I just don't think this behavior was OK and am still mad at him for not getting her off of him.
Her roommate also happened to call tonight and ask if we wanted to come hang out???!!!?? I told him that I have ZERO interest in going back over there, and he acted confused?
Is it that strange that I'm upset that some drunk ***** tried to basically **** my husband right in front of me???????
And btw, the woman isn't the only one I am pissed at.
My husband and I have only been married for six months but have been living together for five years and were together for a year before that.
If I can't trust him to get an old, wrinkly drunk ***** off of him when I'm LITERALLY right in front of him, how can I trust him to stay away from other women when I'm not around?
Trust and cheating have NEVER been an issue in our relationship, but I'm sorry...he acts like this isn't a big deal, but it is. I asked him if he'd be mad if I grinded my ass on some old man's dick and put his hands on my *******...he said he'd go to jail but that that's different because he wasn't the one doing it...but isn't NOT STOPPING IT not the same thing??
Am I supposed to feel as close and happy with him after seeing him bounce another woman on his lap? He also touched her *******, even if it was with the "other side" of his hands, and he also held hands with her. Am I supposed to be OK with that?
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