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I can not be positive, but think I can tell when my wife fakes the "O". And that ends up being about 100% of the time. Heck, after she said she was all set, she told me to hurry up. This does nothing for a mans ego.
I don't think she cares for sex all that much. She was probably happier when we weren't having any. No, we don't talk about it. She denies not liking it, and the conversation ends there.
Anyway, do you mention it when you think she is fakit the "O"?
I have never thought she was faking...so I can't relate. If anything, if she doesn't want to have sex, she'll tell me THAT instead of "faking" orgasm so that I would leave her alone.
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What could be worse than faking the big "O" ?
Accepting it as part of your lifestyle and / or sexual exchange!
I would find or do something ( without being to graphic or specific ) that would start that fire, energize her battery, allow her to have her "O" n then and only then get yours too.......
Could bring a whole new level of excitement to your day..
Sorry to say but all women fake it! Most of the time we enjoy having sex but we're not getting COMPLETELY satisfied. We love our men so most of us fake it to boost his ego. Being able to talk about sex without playing the victim will help. Ask your wife how you can make her enjoy making love more. And tell her what you need also. Experiment! I think men are clueless when it comes to knowing a woman's body. Knowing when she's REALLY in the mood, that'll make sex more enjoyable for you and her. Telling you to hurry up means that you should HURRY UP! When women are having sex and not into it ( not wet ), it really hurts, is very uncomfortable, and just gross.
not all women fake it...I know I don't and haven't. If you are a man who knows your woman you can tell if she fakes it or not. Not cause she goes all Meg Ryan on you....but because of the physical things that happen in/to her....
no i dont, if she mentions it or doesnt or looks excited or bored, swears she isn'ti present or absent she is still working the visa and mastercard with hot hands.
I would just flat out tell her: "I do not appreciate it when you fake it. If you know it's not going to happen and you're OK with that, just say so! Otherwise let's experiment and find out what works for you because you're my wife, I love you, and I want to give you pleasure."
I have only once and it was with one guy and guess what? we only had sex one time. It was so bad I just wanted it over with and I ended things very soon after. If I am in a relationship I don't see the need to fake it. It helps no one. I either tell/show him what I want or say hey it's ok if I don't "O" I still very much enjoyed myself.
Far as the OP sounds like your issues go beyond her just faking it. But I would tell her she doesn't need to do that, it's not helping anything.
Might just have be direct and ask her what would make things more enjoyable. I would even ask if there is something before or after that she wants. Maybe she’s ok with not having the best sex for herself but afterwards if you do X then she’ll try to make sex better for you.
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