Sex for sex sake vs paying for sex (dates, Chinese, different)
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That's why dating is so risky because as the man how are you benefiting? He pays for this and that and ma not even be intimate. Atleast if a woman is coming to your place you know how the evening is going to end
Wait wait why are you dating tvguy. Are you only going out to get laid or are you looking for a companion?
Of course we all hope for sex. Males that is. That does not mean it is the only or even main reason we date. The new sex part of dating is part of learning that person and seeing if there is a match. Hell I really think most of the women want the sex as much as we do. They just have to play the game right to maintain how they want their "image" to be. Even if it is their self image at stake. Social pressures have placed so much negative on sex. Women grow up being told don't do it, it is bad, you always get pregnant, the guy will just use you. Whatever it is. Sad really.
I have no desire to pay to learn what some one likes in bed. It is only really good if you can make them feel as good or better than you do.
Well I have changed the rules of dating. I basically have the first date at my place and we relax, order dinner and watch a movie. No sex, just getting to know each other in a more private setting instead of feeling like I'm on stage inside of a restarunt.
That's a great idea if the lady is comfortable enough with you. Good for you, for thinking outside of the box.
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Originally Posted by TVandSportsGuy
Well I have changed the rules of dating. I basically have the first date at my place and we relax, order dinner and watch a movie. No sex, just getting to know each other in a more private setting instead of feeling like I'm on stage inside of a restarunt.
That's why dating is so risky because as the man how are you benefiting? He pays for this and that and ma not even be intimate. Atleast if a woman is coming to your place you know how the evening is going to end
LOL. Really? You gonna lock her in and force her to have sex with ya?
Or is this the part where you pay her and instead end up with her big, bald, burly driver. No money and no honey.
Ya that last statement of his did seem a little like a trap or like trickery.
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Originally Posted by PassTheChocolate
LOL. Really? You gonna lock her in and force her to have sex with ya?
Or is this the part where you pay her and instead end up with her big, bald, burly driver. No money and no honey.
Ya that last statement of his did seem a little like a trap or like trickery.
Confusing indeed.
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Originally Posted by TVandSportsGuy
That's why dating is so risky because as the man how are you benefiting? He pays for this and that and ma not even be intimate. Atleast if a woman is coming to your place you know how the evening is going to end
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Originally Posted by TVandSportsGuy
Well I have changed the rules of dating. I basically have the first date at my place and we relax, order dinner and watch a movie. No sex, just getting to know each other in a more private setting instead of feeling like I'm on stage inside of a restarunt.
So, to be clear, you're saying that your first date at home is more in the interest of saving money because there are no guarantees you'll have sex if you shell out for a date?
There was a guy that wanted me to have a first date with him at his Dad's house where he was staying and I was like wth is going on here, do I look like a moron to you? ha ha
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Originally Posted by PassTheChocolate
Confusing indeed.
So, to be clear, you're saying that your first date at home is more in the interest of saving money because there are no guarantees you'll have sex if you shell out for a date?
Well I have changed the rules of dating. I basically have the first date at my place and we relax, order dinner and watch a movie. No sex, just getting to know each other in a more private setting instead of feeling like I'm on stage inside of a restarunt.
How are actually able to convince a woman to have a first date at the home of a man she doesn't know? I question her judgement for that. And yours, too. Women have been known to chop up men.
So, to be clear, you're saying that your first date at home is more in the interest of saving money because there are no guarantees you'll have sex if you shell out for a date?
The setting in my apt is a lot better than being in a crowded and noisey restarunt.
Well, they could be good friends already is what I was thinking. Otherwise, it wouldn't be such a good idea.
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Originally Posted by CESpeed
How are actually able to convince a woman to have a first date at the home of a man she doesn't know? I question her judgement for that. And yours, too. Women have been known to chop up men.
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