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Old 05-04-2009, 12:00 PM
 
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I can say as a girl that I have heard SO MANY TIMES "Oh, he's just a douchebag" as an excuse for the way a guy acts.

So my question is, why are guys douchebags? Is that just a fancy term for a selfish person?
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Old 05-04-2009, 12:02 PM
 
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A "Douchebag" is a person with a misplaced ego and exaggerated sense of self-worth, and the trainwreck of a life that results. Douchebags can be selfish, yes, but I would say they are people who show their lack of empathy in a blatantly uncool way.

i.e. someone who is not liked, and does not realize it.

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Old 05-04-2009, 12:02 PM
 
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ha ha good question, to me it means very selfish and kinda mean.

It's not really an excuse. It's more of an insult.

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Old 05-04-2009, 12:07 PM
 
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It's not meant as an excuse. It's simply a derogatory term. Like calling someone an assh***.
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Old 05-04-2009, 12:09 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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Nope, some guys are actually nice guys...but no one wants them either.
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Old 05-04-2009, 12:10 PM
 
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Some men are douchbags.
Some women are beatches.
That's life.
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Old 05-04-2009, 12:10 PM
 
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Default Why Are Women Douche Bags?

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So my question is, why are guys douchebags? Is that just a fancy term for a selfish person?
I've heard this term used by guys for women too. Nearly always, the guy could easily have the term used against him, too. Perhaps it takes one to know one!

As for what it means, all I can say is it isn't a term of endearment.
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Old 05-04-2009, 12:12 PM
 
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It's not meant as an excuse. It's simply a derogatory term. Like calling someone an assh***.

Maybe not necessarily an excuse but I know that there have been many times when I'm talking to a very close guy friend of mine and I ask him a question about another guy and his behavior so I can get a male's perspective on things and it seems like "he's a douchebag" is the reason why most of the time.
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Old 05-04-2009, 12:16 PM
 
Location: Rockland County New York
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I can say as a girl that I have heard SO MANY TIMES "Oh, he's just a douchebag" as an excuse for the way a guy acts.

So my question is, why are guys douchebags? Is that just a fancy term for a selfish person?
The question to ask is why do women date douchbags? Can't tell you how many times I have seen women date the same type of guy. They just never learn.
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Old 05-04-2009, 12:18 PM
 
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Maybe not necessarily an excuse but I know that there have been many times when I'm talking to a very close guy friend of mine and I ask him a question about another guy and his behavior so I can get a male's perspective on things and it seems like "he's a douchebag" is the reason why most of the time.

Like I said....it's just a derogatory term. Don't attach so much importance to the term. Just take it for a general "dis" of the guy, that's all. Find one that DOESN'T behave that way.
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