Sex with a male you don't like (dating, boyfriends, girlfriends)

[60-minutes-II]

Ok. This is a question for males(yeah like women won't respond). Would you date a girl who has had casual sex or has been in a relationship with a male you disliked? Or would you not have any relationship with her? I ask because most women date scum be4 they meet a decent guy and should that decent guy disregard her just for her past relationship(s)?

[cuinlalaland]

Quite the opposite. I admire a woman who sees through pompous losers (and those are usually the kind of guys I dislike.) But MUCH more so if she sees through them BEFORE sleeping with them and has the moral integrity and self-confidence to overcome any physical attraction for the sake of long-term emotional health.

Does that make sense?

[60-minutes-II]

Originally Posted by cuinlalaland

Quite the opposite. I admire a woman who sees through pompous losers (and those are usually the kind of guys I dislike.) But MUCH more so if she sees through them BEFORE sleeping with them and has the moral integrity and self-confidence to overcome any physical attraction for the sake of long-term emotional health.

Does that make sense?

yeah yeah.

[Dbl-r]

Originally Posted by 60-minutes-II

Ok. This is a question for males(yeah like women won't respond). Would you date a girl who has had casual sex or has been in a relationship with a male you disliked? Or would you not have any relationship with her? I ask because most women date scum be4 they meet a decent guy and should that decent guy disregard her just for her past relationship(s)?

Personally I think your question and post is somewhat rediculous. We have all gone out with someone that someone else didn't like? So in a round about way within your definition we are all scum!! Then to weigh it heavy towards the female population should create some hate mail for you......Way to go

[Lynda05125]

In my life of dating I never dated scum, I did date the
wrong guy a few times but they were not scum and,
and if someone I dated had a problem with someone
I dated before him then that’s his problem he better
get over it or he will be an ex boyfriend as well.

[lovesMountains]

The title of your thread is VERY misleading Sounds like YOU'RE thinking of having sex with a male you don't like!

[Twinkle Toes]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

The title of your thread is VERY misleading Sounds like YOU'RE thinking of having sex with a male you don't like!

He probably is. I think we need to get someone up in here who can help him come out of the closet - and start having sex with males he DOES like!

[miu]

Originally Posted by 60-minutes-II

Ok. This is a question for males(yeah like women won't respond). Would you date a girl who has had casual sex or has been in a relationship with a male you disliked? Or would you not have any relationship with her? I ask because most women date scum be4 they meet a decent guy and should that decent guy disregard her just for her past relationship(s)?

Has this situation ever happened to you? Or is this just some hypothetical scenario that you've dreamed up? Are you watching too many soap operas?

Unless you are living in a small town, or your circle of friends is very small, there is no reason to be dating a woman that is an ex of someone you know and dislike... unless you are some control freak of a guy that starts dating a woman and then insists on meeting her ex boyfriends.

Everyone has a past, so deal with it by not dwelling on it. And us women usually have more baggage to deal with guys having ex girlfriends, ex FWB's and however many sexual hookups and exploits they needed to have to deal with their horniness.

[oregonwana_b]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

The title of your thread is VERY misleading Sounds like YOU'RE thinking of having sex with a male you don't like!

That is exactly what I was thinking......

[killer2021]

I would only bang her if she was giving me NSA sex or friends with benefit style relationship. Nothing more.