is my personality ****? (dating, women, friends, friendship)

[samston]

This is not self-pity but self-improvement.

if a guy has a poor personality, is it a hindrance in dating?

[mrstewart]

Yes.

[Waynec613]

[Ivorytickler]

Yes. When you're old, all that's left is personality.

[samston]

OK. But what is a good personality?

[Dbl-r]

Hello......Hello

[samston]

Originally Posted by Dbl-r

Hello......Hello

i don't get it.

[yukiko11]

Who told you you have a poor personality?

If you are polite, kind, and a good listener, any woman will give you a second look. We hate jerks who try to show off to impress everyone. We also hate men who think that they have what every woman "needs" between their legs. That doesn't mean we don't want you to persue us, we just don't want to be jumped.
Try going to places and getting involved in activities that interest YOU. If you are comfortable in your surroundings, you will be more secure and you will meet women who share similar interests. Friendship is the best start to a relationship you could want.

[ChessieMom]

Originally Posted by samston

i don't get it.

He's flicking you on the head.

Which is actually what we are all doing, vicariously.

[ExPit]

Originally Posted by samston

This is not self-pity but self-improvement.

if a guy has a poor personality, is it a hindrance in dating?

Nah. But then neither is impotence, heroine addiction, unemployment,
or a two square inch, hairy wart on the end of your nose.