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Old 06-20-2009, 12:18 AM
 
Location: Sputnik Planitia
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I met this girl tonight, very attractive, astonishing blue eyes and absolutely amazing on all levels, we connected so well on many different aspects and have a ton of stuff in common...but she is physically just not who I usually date at all..., I'm a small guy 5'6 but very fit, and she is probably 5'9 with 3" heels on (which makes her 6'0) and also a little overweight which makes her a big girl!

I'm just so confused, because of her personality and the way we connected I have no issues with the difference in height or weight AT ALL. I got her number and she seemed like she really wanted me to call her but I am not sure if the physical differences are going to be an issue...what do you think?
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Old 06-20-2009, 12:20 AM
 
Location: Not tied down... maybe later! *rawr*
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Why not give her a chance before you run all the "what if's" thru your head and talk yourself into passing up a potentially great girl.
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Old 06-20-2009, 12:52 AM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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Go with the flow, dude.
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Old 06-20-2009, 12:52 AM
 
Location: Austintown, OH
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Why not? What else do you have to do
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Old 06-20-2009, 02:00 AM
 
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Thats what? a 3' difference? Thats nothing.

I am 5'3 and I have dated women 6 foot +. It is actually pretty funny to go walking around town. I love to see the heads turn

What you need to do is get rid of all this idiotic social logic and go for what your second brain tells you. If your second brain likes what you see, go for it. You'll be on a whole new level.
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Old 06-20-2009, 05:16 AM
 
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If you like her and she likes you back, then there is no problem.
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Old 06-20-2009, 05:58 AM
 
Location: Naptowne, Alaska
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I married a woman 4 inches taller than myself. You don't know what your missing!
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Old 06-20-2009, 10:05 AM
 
Location: NY metro area
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Being a tall chick myself, that's married to a shorter man, JUST CALL HER!
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Old 06-20-2009, 10:17 AM
 
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I see no harm in going out with her again. Do not judge the book by the cover, read her
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Old 06-20-2009, 10:22 AM
 
Location: Rockland County New York
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Just give her a call. She could be Mrs. Right. What ever you do try not to have any preconceived notions about what it’s going to be like. As some one said here, just go with the flow.
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