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Old 11-22-2012, 10:53 AM
 
Location: OC/LA, California
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If you caught someone snooping on your phone, someone you are just dating and not officially in a relationship with. Would you keep dating him/her or dump him/her right away? Lets say you like the person alot and you are super attracted to him/her. What are you gonna do?
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Old 11-22-2012, 11:01 AM
 
Location: North Carolina
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If you caught someone snooping on your phone, someone you are just dating and not officially in a relationship with. Would you keep dating him/her or dump him/her right away? Lets say you like the person alot and you are super attracted to him/her. What are you gonna do?
I would be done right there. It will only get worse.


I’ve dated women that have been ruined by some jerk that constantly cheated and they're really hard relationships as there is major trust issues that are unwarranted a many cases.
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Old 11-22-2012, 11:04 AM
 
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First I would congratulate him for cracking the passcode on my phone and then I'd ask what in the tarmac he is doing.
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Old 11-22-2012, 12:18 PM
 
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Well if you are like a lot of people these days "Throw the person away and get a new one"!

If however you are the type to work on relationships, then talk about it with the person. Work on it. Work things out.

So far as myself, I have no secrets, so I could care less if anyone was snooping or not. I would ask the person what they wanted to know, then tell them.

Other than that, I DO NOT want anyone else fiddling with my cell phone or computer. In the past people have done this, then placed it in some weird "mode", then it take me forever to get things working again.

The worst offenders so far as modes and electronic gadgets are concerned are my dogs... They will step on a TV remote control or whatever and get it into some sort of "programming mode". I now leave the remotes upside down on the couch!
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Old 11-22-2012, 12:20 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Privacy violation is a dealbreaker for me. However, I would have a conversation around why she felt the need to do that. Depending on the explanation, I might look past that incident with the caveat that if I even smell a hint of something like that happening again, to quote Donald Trump, "You're fired!".
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Old 11-22-2012, 12:20 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I would say a good caning is in order.
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Old 11-22-2012, 12:32 PM
 
Location: H-Tine, Texas
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If you caught someone snooping on your phone, someone you are just dating and not officially in a relationship with. Would you keep dating him/her or dump him/her right away? Lets say you like the person alot and you are super attracted to him/her. What are you gonna do?
Go through my phone with them so they can see that I don't have inappropriate photos or videos on there.

Look at them for a minute, let it get really soak in and get awkward and make them feel really stupid.

And then politely tell them to get the freak up outta my house.
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Old 11-22-2012, 12:34 PM
 
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It would be done immediately, if they are snooping they don't there is no trust and no need to move any further because there is no relationship.
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Old 11-22-2012, 12:36 PM
 
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Would not like it at all.
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Old 11-22-2012, 01:48 PM
 
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I would be very upset with them that they didn't trust me and I would have to end it because it would get worse. We aren't even official and they are exhibiting jealous tendencies already..
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