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Here's the best thing you can do: Lighten up. Bring it out in the open, find it funny that you two did this, and get on with your life, rather than allow it to fester.
Here's the best thing you can do: Lighten up. Bring it out in the open, find it funny that you too did this, and get on with your life, rather than allow it to fester.
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Originally Posted by cpg35223
Here's the best thing you can do: Lighten up. Bring it out in the open, find it funny that you too did this, and get on with your life, rather than allow it to fester.
Basically what I had in mind with the make her laugh advice. Nothing lightens things up like humor.
Last week i was at a bar with my friends and ended up making out with my best friends wifes best friend,we were pretty drunk went back to my friend and his wifes house and made out and slept together[no sex]
I knew thsi girl for years and thought she was cool but she always had a boyfriend who she broke up with about 5 or 6 months ago
We exchanged numbers and i called her later in the week to tell her i enjoyed the night and would like to hang out with her sometime.. she then texted me bacK how she was really wasted but how im a great guy but shes in a bad place in her life and doesnt want to drag someobdy in her life and hurt them..
I saw her for the first time after the incident at my friends house the other day and it just seemed awkward maybe it was just me but i felt it
My question is should i have read the situation better as just a drunken encounter where maybe she has some slight feelings for me physically and or mentally that was accelrated by alcohol and not even told her i liked her?
Only because im connected to this girl through that couple and have to see her allot and i probably made it akward for her by having to reject me and me for being rejected and feeling weird around her..
She probably feels as awkward as you do...let it be a lesson learned well
Confusious say, "Never drink and drive" or get involved with someone when you've both had to much to drink.
I appreciate all the advice,i think im gonna try to use the humor thing,it would help because it was almost like i avoided trying to talk to her and be ovelry nice because i was afraid shed get the idea i was gonna be up her behind[not literally lol] and annoying and i dont want to give out that vibe..
And no this isnt somethign thats gonna infatuate me,whilw shes a real cool girl and i wouldnt mind hanging out with her i think its more the fact that im not great with women and this pretty girl is giving me attention that i liked so much
Drunken encounters are often just that. If you are looking for more, then it's probably best to avoid such situations. And you probably already know that, now. But good luck, just the same. You never know...she might just need some time to sort things out. But you keep on keeping on...okay?
Appreciate the advice..
At first i wask kinda hurt becasue im not great with women and thinkign negative like damn another wome rejecting me and she probably wouldnt touch me without the alcohol and blah blah but at the same time i showed her how felt about thisituation which im usually two scared to do and ill move on and take this exepreince as a positive..And as you said who knows what the future holds..
I appreciate all the advice,i think im gonna try to use the humor thing,it would help because it was almost like i avoided trying to talk to her and be ovelry nice because i was afraid shed get the idea i was gonna be up her behind[not literally lol] and annoying and i dont want to give out that vibe..
And no this isnt somethign thats gonna infatuate me,whilw shes a real cool girl and i wouldnt mind hanging out with her i think its more the fact that im not great with women and this pretty girl is giving me attention that i liked so much
You know, you might not FEEL like you're very good with women, but I have to say I'm pretty impressed with your take on the situation and how you've handled yourself. So it might not FEEL like you know what you're doing or that you're not doing that great but I think you're probably handling this a whole lot better than you realize.
She got drunk and made out with a different guy last week,apparently shes just a drunk mess
I figured she was too pretty to make out with me sober
Back to self pity
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