the in-laws/culture clash

[2mares]

Let's see, the fiance doesn't support you which means he doesn't truly respect you either. He backs his mother against you (HUGE red flag!).

Break up, pursue your dreams, move on with your life. You will eventually meet someone who respects you for the person you are.

I agree. You will be better off with someone that supports your dreams instead of your financial well being. And your fiancé will be free to find a mate that appreciates hard work, generosity and his dreams of financial stability instead of indebtedness.

You will both be better off in the long run.

[Platinum333]

I'm going to have to agree with what everyone else says. The family is allowed to have their opinion, but they need to be respectful and stop ridiculing you.

Your husband, also needs to be supportive of you. It's very wrong that he is allowing them to talk down to you like that. Your education isn't hurting anyone & isn't something that should be mocked.

I would have flown off the handle at those comments. I can feel your tension and *deep breathes*..honestly. They are so ridiculous and rude. Shame on them.