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Old 06-29-2009, 08:55 AM
 
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I've been through a lot of relationships but it didnt work out. And its been awhile I havent dated anyone since I've been experiencing the same Hi and Goodbyes. I wonder if there is actually a perfect match or a soul mate.
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Old 06-29-2009, 09:02 AM
 
Location: Hot Springs, AR
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There is a perfect match/soul mate the problem is that people confuse the words "perfect match" to mean "perfect person".

There's no such thing as a perfect person there's only someone who is perfect for you.
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Old 06-29-2009, 09:09 AM
 
Location: Fiji
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I've been through a lot of relationships but it didnt work out. And its been awhile I havent dated anyone since I've been experiencing the same Hi and Goodbyes. I wonder if there is actually a perfect match or a soul mate.
I don't know if there is a such thing as a perfect match. I think that there are several people who we can have successful marriages with as opposed to just one singular, perfect soulmate. I guess, it's just a matter of choosing. In any case, the relationship will require work from both sides involved.
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Old 06-29-2009, 10:00 AM
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Location: Western WA
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There is no such thing, and the sooner you realize this the sooner you can be at peace with yourself. Try to find the best person you can find, to be happy with and try not to be too picky. Remember you are not perfect, and your mate should not be expected to be perfect as well.

Good luck.
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Old 06-29-2009, 10:04 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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No, nothing is perfect or even close.
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Old 06-29-2009, 10:06 AM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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There is someone for everyone, but we are all attracted to a certain type of person initially. So if you keep meeting the same type of person over and over again you end up with the same result. That's why it's important to form a friendship with the person you are attracted to, it's important to like the person for what's beneath the surface.
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Old 06-29-2009, 10:54 AM
 
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There is someone for everyone, but we are all attracted to a certain type of person initially. So if you keep meeting the same type of person over and over again you end up with the same result. That's why it's important to form a friendship with the person you are attracted to, it's important to like the person for what's beneath the surface.
there is a difference between being friends and lovers.. one relationship i had was being friends till we became best of friends.. oh well we both feel the same but it came to a point that we both loose being best of friends and didnt even get the chance to be lovers. Being friends will pull ya both back to step forward to a deeper relationship. This happened to me, (we might be better off as friends and not lovers) the thing is if ya love someone ya can just say and show what ya feel and then be friends as the relationship go along. But the problem comes in when the guy im falling for is not the perfect match for me seems he is not the guy for me since everyday arguments arises and love is gone. "Is there really a perfect match or soul mate that is" Or just me who has a problem.
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Old 06-29-2009, 11:35 AM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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Yes there is, and this perfect partner is also my soul mate. Who is this perfect being, you ask? Well ....... this perfect partner and soul mate is ....... none other than ......................... MY BIRD!!!!!

Here's a pic of what she looks like - this is not actually her.

http://z.about.com/d/birds/1/0/D/-/-/-/PC100011.JPG
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Old 06-29-2009, 11:42 AM
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Location: Western WA
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LOL

Kinda like all those women out there with all the dogs and cats? I guess they are the perfect partners. Never complain, never nag and are always there for you.
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Old 06-29-2009, 11:46 AM
 
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My husband is not a perfect person but he is perfect for me.
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