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Old 07-10-2009, 08:46 AM
 
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I have a problem.

After a night of sex I made a comment in passing that it would be nice to have sex without a condom.

Well, the wife now told me the other day that she got a prescription for the pill.

Problem is.... she is very moody and unbalanced as it is. She was on the pill years ago and it made her almost hard to live with. Right now she is hard to live with let alone getting her on the pill.

I tried to get her on medication for her mood disorder and she refused to do this.

My question is, "How can I tell her in a nice way that I would like her to get medication to help her moods not make them worse?"
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Old 07-10-2009, 08:49 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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She might be simply allergic to you... Ever thought of that?
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Old 07-10-2009, 08:54 AM
 
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She might be simply allergic to you... Ever thought of that?


Maybe.
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Old 07-10-2009, 09:17 AM
 
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Is sterilization an option for birth control?

I really cant say I blame her for not wanting to go on thoes meds. I know there are people that really need them, but there is so much abuse of "mood" drugs.
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Old 07-10-2009, 09:43 AM
 
Location: NYC area
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How about you get a vasectomy? That would eliminate the need for birth control pills. I mean it's you who wants to have sex without condoms -- makes sense it should be you who makes changes to your body to make the activity safe.

By the way -- since you ask -- perhaps your wife's moods stem from precisely this kind of family dynamic (you want to have sex without condoms, but she's the one who has to start pumping chemicals into her body to satisfy your preferences), rather than any kind of inherent "defect" on your wife's part, as you seem to be suggesting.
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