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Thanks for the replies. It is disappointing a few made less than serious comments, but overall I appreciate the enlightenment. Troll? No sir. I've personally never felt the color of ones skin compromised the attractiveness of that person...nor the interior beauty as well.
One thing that I have noticed in this thread thus far, every answer is about blacks and none of them are positive..........Another slap blacks in the face thread because we all know whites folks can do NO wrong!
Just when you think things are changing, the more you realize things are the same........
I noticed the note you left in my reputation, but I am just stating things from experience.
Some black men have, and still to some extent do, date white women since they reckon they're badass for dating white. I don't think that's so controversial.
now, you say I'm bashing black people, but do you know for sure I'm non-black?
You must be very naive and young to think that is cute. That fool above that you're responding is about as ignorant as they come.....
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Originally Posted by Chanteuse d' Opéra
LOL, wowwww...I'm a black woman & I remember I went to a frat party when I was a freshman in college & my friend (who was black) & I were sitting in the middle of a very drunken white guy & I remember he said "Yeah, I love black girls...they have the best blowj*b lips"...I was stunned...random, but I just thought about it when I came across the aforementioned statement.
I noticed the note you left in my reputation, but I am just stating things from experience.
Some black men have, and still to some extent do, date white women since they reckon they're badass for dating white. I don't think that's so controversial.
now, you say I'm bashing black people, but do you know for sure I'm non-black?
Peace, Ron. and samston. I am going to take a risk here and say that if we allow the thread to run off into a ditch--bickering, getting off topic--the thread will more than likely be cut. The topic is controversial enough.
I am finding this discussion very interesting and enlightening. Times are changing, slowly but surely. Not all Black women are dating outside the race because there is a shortage of suitable Black men. I personally find that idea ridiculous. Not all Black men are dating outside the race because there is a shortage of suitable Black women. Also ridiculous, imo. More and more people (Black, White, or otherwise) are finally waking up to the fact that even though racial or cultural differences can be a challenge (as well as a joy), in the long run it is worth it if the work involved leads to a strong relationship with the right person.
Folks, please don't let this thread be reduced to needless fighting or bickering. Sometimes, we just need to learn to agree to disagree when there seems to be no common ground.
It is not common.......MOST black athletes marry and get involved with black women. MOST black athletes are not well known so where did you get you info from?
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Originally Posted by Nikki9947
My only IR question is what's up with these pro-athletes that flock to non-black women? (It's very common..Almost like it's their trophy or prize). I never quite understood that one...?
Duh.............what does that have to do with any thing. Blacks bash other blacks all the time. Have you noticed blacks kill each other more than anyone else.....isn't that bashing. It makes no difference if you black or not.
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Originally Posted by samston
I noticed the note you left in my reputation, but I am just stating things from experience.
Some black men have, and still to some extent do, date white women since they reckon they're badass for dating white. I don't think that's so controversial.
now, you say I'm bashing black people, but do you know for sure I'm non-black?
I don't know, maybe black women aren't that attracted to white men? Also from what I've seen around me, black women seem to like the thuggish wannabe rapper types. I've even seen black guys turned down by black women because they weren't thug enough. The educated non thuggish black guys get tired of this and date outside their race. Additionally I think in terms of acceptance, a black woman may be more concerned with what her friends and family think about her dating a white man than a black guy would dating a white woman.
Love when people go straight for stereotypes and try to make it sound like a common occurence.
I don't date outside of my race because I choose not to.
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Originally Posted by Nala8
So sad but true. I have seen some of the White women with Black men on trains sneaking little smug looks at me as if to say, "Ha ha ha. I won." So weird to me.
LOL I get that too. In most cases I’m thinking to myself “If he was the grand prize; I’d hate to see the runner-up.”
Peace, Ron. and samston. I am going to take a risk here and say that if we allow the thread to run off into a ditch--bickering, getting off topic--the thread will more than likely be cut. The topic is controversial enough.
I am finding this discussion very interesting and enlightening. Times are changing, slowly but surely. Not all Black women are dating outside the race because there is a shortage of suitable Black men. I personally find that idea ridiculous. Not all Black men are dating outside the race because there is a shortage of suitable Black women. Also ridiculous, imo. More and more people (Black, White, or otherwise) are finally waking up to the fact that even though racial or cultural differences can be a challenge (as well as a joy), in the long run it is worth it if the work involved leads to a strong relationship with the right person.
Folks, please don't let this thread be reduced to needless fighting or bickering. Sometimes, we just need to learn to agree to disagree when there seems to be no common ground.
lol... I am not angry at all. Nor am I looking for an argument.
I was just laying out answers to the OP's question, which i think in some limited cases hold.
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