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Old 09-10-2009, 01:20 PM
 
Location: New England
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BINGO!

Why is this such a hard concept for people to grasp??
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Why should women like you if you don't like yourself?

for reeeeeal. also, girls don't like the "woe is me" type of guy. get some confidence.
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Old 09-10-2009, 01:33 PM
 
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No. Never act like a jerk. You don't want to be thrown in jail for something you didn't intend. lol.

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I read about the 26 year old that never dated. I don't fit into social situations and I'm incapable of small talk. If someone wants to talk about mathematics or philosophy or Bach, that's fine, but otherwise.... Women pay no attention to me- it's like I'm invisible. Maybe if I acted like a jerk...
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Old 09-10-2009, 02:58 PM
 
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You should start by tweaking up your profile. Stop acting invisible and you won't be invisible.


Really, you've wasted all these years and never attempted to talk to anyone?

Is this thread even real?
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Old 09-10-2009, 04:09 PM
 
Location: Los Angeles
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I love myself. I never speak publicly of my problems. My attitude is entirely based on experience at least until I just gave up about 10 years ago.
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Old 09-10-2009, 04:20 PM
 
Location: Wicker Park, Chicago
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I read about the 26 year old that never dated. I don't fit into social situations and I'm incapable of small talk. If someone wants to talk about mathematics or philosophy or Bach, that's fine, but otherwise.... Women pay no attention to me- it's like I'm invisible. Maybe if I acted like a jerk...
Unfortunately, maybe you're physically ugly, because at 40, I have been approached by women because I'm attractive enough. But being unemployed throws them away...
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Old 09-10-2009, 05:12 PM
 
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Thanks for the replies.

Do not act like a jerk. Try working on a sense of humor. Also are you smiling now? Be aware of the fearful scowl on your face. Its supposed to be fun. --Actually, I'm a nihilist. I think that (historically speaking) the total amount of pain in the world is far greater than the amount of pleasure and it would have been better if the human race never existed. YOU may be having fun, but that doesn't help the people who lived as slaves, died horrible deaths, etc.

I personally don't like people, so I don't want to talk to them-- (I think) I like some people, but it's people I've never met- I suspect that Bertrand Russell and I would have gotten along fine.

I think that men and women are fundamentally different. Who has a best friend of the opposite sex except in the movies? Maybe all the men could live in the northern hemisphere and all the women in the southern, with occasional shipments of sperm to keep the race going.
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Old 09-10-2009, 05:30 PM
 
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I think that men and women are fundamentally different. Who has a best friend of the opposite sex except in the movies? Maybe all the men could live in the northern hemisphere and all the women in the southern, with occasional shipments of sperm to keep the race going.


Other people have but you don't. You're a sociopath. Do you really mean those things? It's no wonder why you've never dated with that mentality.

So you're saying that we shouldn't have fun because you're not? It's not like we don't go through ups and downs or acknowledge that there are people who are suffering. If you care that much about that, join some humanitarian organization and get some friends so that someday you will have a date.

But I don't know, since you've just said that because you don't know how to get a date that you believe that men and women should be separated like that.
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Old 09-10-2009, 06:16 PM
 
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Thanks for the replies.

Do not act like a jerk. Try working on a sense of humor. Also are you smiling now? Be aware of the fearful scowl on your face. Its supposed to be fun. --Actually, I'm a nihilist. I think that (historically speaking) the total amount of pain in the world is far greater than the amount of pleasure and it would have been better if the human race never existed. YOU may be having fun, but that doesn't help the people who lived as slaves, died horrible deaths, etc.

I personally don't like people, so I don't want to talk to them-- (I think) I like some people, but it's people I've never met- I suspect that Bertrand Russell and I would have gotten along fine.

I think that men and women are fundamentally different. Who has a best friend of the opposite sex except in the movies? Maybe all the men could live in the northern hemisphere and all the women in the southern, with occasional shipments of sperm to keep the race going.
Your opinion is a bit over the top, too extreme, but unfortunately, I have to agree with the statemente in bold.
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Old 09-10-2009, 07:16 PM
 
Location: USA
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Unfortunately, maybe you're physically ugly, because at 40, I have been approached by women because I'm attractive enough. But being unemployed throws them away...
& that's just wrong in this economy.

Now if it were 1999 instead, they'd have reason to maybe think you're a bum.
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Old 09-10-2009, 11:11 PM
 
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Thanks for the replies.

Do not act like a jerk. Try working on a sense of humor. Also are you smiling now? Be aware of the fearful scowl on your face. Its supposed to be fun. --Actually, I'm a nihilist. I think that (historically speaking) the total amount of pain in the world is far greater than the amount of pleasure and it would have been better if the human race never existed. YOU may be having fun, but that doesn't help the people who lived as slaves, died horrible deaths, etc.

I personally don't like people, so I don't want to talk to them-- (I think) I like some people, but it's people I've never met- I suspect that Bertrand Russell and I would have gotten along fine.
Hi Mygalomorph,

May I suggest Voltaire. I think you might like Candide.

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I think that men and women are fundamentally different. Who has a best friend of the opposite sex except in the movies? Maybe all the men could live in the northern hemisphere and all the women in the southern, with occasional shipments of sperm to keep the race going.
I' ll stay in the southern hemisphere.
It has been evident to me that many people who find the world lacking contribute to the what it lacks the most. Condemned and tied to a post, I would be defiant against what I hate rather than embrace it. That is what I am doing now.
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