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My bud from NY, the one whose wife has being going out on a series of girls night outs. Well he is telling me that problems have escalated since then. He says his wife does not want to have sex with him, she doesn't even want to be touched.
She asked him to shave her pubic area, has been on myspace sending and deleting messages recieved, wearing thongs and when she gets home she changes to granny panties, among other questionable behavior.
All of this mind you after he allowed her to go on girls night out, now I don't know what to say to him except to put a stop to it and if she doesn't give in then separation/divorce in inevitable, but I haven't told him anything yet.
What do you guys think?
She's just not that into him. My idea of a girl's night out is dinner, talk and a couple of glasses of wine...with GIRLS. It sounds as if HERS is prowling for sex elsewhere...deal breaker.
As others have said, it's not your business, but I would definitely tell my friend to start marshalling his resources for a split up.
It's not something I would tolerate. Just tell him that. She's screwing around on him. Ask him how much he wants to live with that. Any kids involved? If not, I'd leave.
That's what I thought but what can you do when it's your best bud going through a not similar but close situation as mine.
Something in the air!
I`m assuming that she did not behave like this, before the girls night out?
Its obvious that something isn`t right. He needs to have a..."Its time for us to talk."
All of this mind you after he allowed her to go on girls night out, now I don't know what to say to him except to put a stop to it and if she doesn't give in then separation/divorce in inevitable, but I haven't told him anything yet.
He knows and sees all this for himself, and probably knows some further stuff. I think it's between them.
How old is she? Maybe she's going through a little mid-life crisis. Though I'd be very concerned about her changing underwear after a night out with the "girls"...just doesn't sound right.
She's just not that into him. My idea of a girl's night out is dinner, talk and a couple of glasses of wine...with GIRLS. It sounds as if HERS is prowling for sex elsewhere...deal breaker.
As others have said, it's not your business, but I would definitely tell my friend to start marshalling his resources for a split up.
Maybe so but there is always the what if, what if if she's just having fun? I now it's none of my business but he's also a good friend so just for that should I give him a cold shoulder?
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Originally Posted by steelstress
It's not something I would tolerate. Just tell him that. She's screwing around on him. Ask him how much he wants to live with that. Any kids involved? If not, I'd leave.
Yes, there are kids involved.
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