Afraid To Give My Bud The Wrong Advise Again (women, friend, respect)
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My bud from NY, the one whose wife has being going out on a series of girls night outs. Well he is telling me that problems have escalated since then. He says his wife does not want to have sex with him, she doesn't even want to be touched.
She asked him to shave her pubic area, has been on myspace sending and deleting messages recieved, wearing thongs and when she gets home she changes to granny panties, among other questionable behavior.
All of this mind you after he allowed her to go on girls night out, now I don't know what to say to him except to put a stop to it and if she doesn't give in then separation/divorce in inevitable, but I haven't told him anything yet.
What do you guys think?
A good defense lawyer would rip this to shreds, I think.
"She doesn't want sex / want to be touched" - maybe he's into a certain style of sex that she's not comfortable with. Maybe the bruises still hurt when he touches them.
She asked him to shave her pubes - so what? It's often easier to have someone else do it.
MySpace - as Pitt=Transplant mentioned, get some hard proof. Otherwise it's just conjecture.
Wearing thongs / granny panties - what she wears is no indication of her sexual misconduct.
So, maybe she IS an innocent party in this affair. Yes, circumstantial evidence is huge - but not enough to convict unless your friend is 100% sure.
A good defense lawyer would rip this to shreds, I think.
"She doesn't want sex / want to be touched" - maybe he's into a certain style of sex that she's not comfortable with. Maybe the bruises still hurt when he touches them.
She asked him to shave her pubes - so what? It's often easier to have someone else do it.
MySpace - as Pitt=Transplant mentioned, get some hard proof. Otherwise it's just conjecture.
Wearing thongs / granny panties - what she wears is no indication of her sexual misconduct.
So, maybe she IS an innocent party in this affair. Yes, circumstantial evidence is huge - but not enough to convict unless your friend is 100% sure.
Exactly. Maybe she is just having fun but her actions/behavior indicate otherwise. It's like a 50/50 thing here.
Exactly. Maybe she is just having fun but her actions/behavior indicate otherwise. It's like a 50/50 thing here.
I know you're his friend and all - maybe just say "Hey, man, whatever happens I'm in your corner" and leave it at that? Hopefully that doesn't commit you to doing anything too strange either way.
It's one thing to put your bud up for a few days on a cot in your living room.
It's another to split the contract on his wife 50/50.
Over the years I've learned not to get involved. I know it stinks, and my tongue is full of holes from biting it in situations like this.
But at least I'll never be responsible for breaking up an innocent couple through my own misconceptions.
I can`t resist.. maybe she found some sick pleasure into that ordeal.
You mean like taunting him w/ her forbidden fruit?
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I can`t resist.. maybe she found some sick pleasure into that ordeal. 
