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I realized he didnt love me and he was the first one he broke my heart, It was hard but I moved on.
I had intense feelings about it, spent a week crying and asking what I did wrong till I realize it had to happen, our break up.
I also realized he is a jerk and he didn't try to say nothing more than "sorry".
We talked several times after our break up and acted like we are friends. I didnt care what he is gonna say . I knew I am over him.
But last week we stopped saying hi when we saw online on msn and actually I started it first, he leaded I guess. And i dont think he cared too much If I am talking to me or not.
But, right now, I am feeling depressed and sad because I know he is online and he sets his status 'away' not saying even "hi" .
It hurt me more than anything, right now.
It makes me think not how much i miss him, how much i miss the security about the future and the feeling about being loved and his "selfish" words like "i need you in my life"
Is it possible he just dont care at all about the person he made plans about living together?
Is it possible he just dont care at all about the person he made plans about living together?
Yes. Unfortunetly it is possible.
Here is what you need to do. Ignore him. Put him on "away."
Let him have a taste of what he is giving you...and in the mean time, move on.
from the way you talk, it doesn't sound like you're over him ?
if you kept talking on msn, then you weren't moving on.
if you've broken contact, then you're beginning the process of moving on now.
delete him from your contacts, don't keep looking to see if he's online.
begin to move on, and don't wait for him.
allow yourself to hurt, and allow yourself to hate.
it will be painful, and it will not be easy, but it won't last forever.
if you kept talking on msn, then you weren't moving on.
I know what you mean and you're probably right, but all I wanted to hear were his reasons for being an ******* and simple care and support I got in the past months from him.
He was there for me when I was going through really bad time on work and all that.
But emotions are emotions I guess. Strange thing
And his "forever" maybe meant "until tomorrow"
I know what you mean and you're probably right, but all I wanted to hear were his reasons for being an ******* and simple care and support I got in the past months from him.
He was there for me when I was going through really bad time on work and all that.
Then Thank him for the much needed support, and turn him OFF.
Thats all that needs to be said. Guys are not going to explain themselves, as to why they are an ass.
I'm sorry you got hurt, but I think you just dodged a bullet. If you had married this guy and then found out his "forever" only meant "until tomorrow" it would've been so much worse. This gives you a chance to move on and find someone as wonderful as you are. Please do not settle for someone who truly isn't worthy of all you have to offer. You never really know someone until the end of the relationship and this guy has proved himself to be unsuitable. Sorry.
Look at it this way, you are going to have a couple of weeks of pain vs a lifetime of pain and disappointment - seems like a reasonable trade-off to me. You "sound"young, it's hard I know but things do move on, just make sure you are over this guy before you put yourself out there for someone else.
The only way you are going to get over him is by cutting off contact in every way. No phone calls, emails, texting, or looking at old photos of happier times. Why torture yourself?
I've felt how you do before, and what I did was I started to call old friends and make plans for myself. Start reading books at parks, go for walks, pick up working out (I did all of the above haha). Just start living for you, in time someone will come along and you will have become a much stronger person bc of this break up. This break up is for the best, learn from it and move on. Take a look in the mirror and tell yourself you can do it and you will move on. Good luck with everything.
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