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I have a friend, co worker of mine, handsome dude, really cleancut, hardworker, recently divorced, but this dude has a problem! Hes dated 2 pretty girls since the divorce, he dated the first one 3 months and never slept w/her, NEVER!!! The girl eventually got bored w him and dumped him, told her friend that he was too "green" that he never even tried to sleep w her, and she wnated to w him This girl his with now is really pretty [my kind of girl] i gave him alot of credit for hooking up w her, but yesterday she was telling me that hes too nice, that shes too much of a witch for him, and to give him some "tips" cuz hes not aggrssive w her at all, im scared that shes going to get bored of him too and dump him! Thts my dog, so i really dont want him to get dumped, any thoughts on this? I guess girls dont really like nice passive guys
i agree its like hes intimidated, he was with his ex wife for 15 years. i remember i was like that after i got seperated, i was just so used to be with her and her only, but after i was with 2 or 3 girls, i got my confidence back and it was on after that!
Well, how's your friend feeling about these dates? Maybe he's just going through the motions with these women. He probably just needs time to get over the ex-wife. Let the guy live a little...there's no hurry.
Are you bothered by the fact that he "bores" women or that he doesn't have a steady girl? Are you married or with a steady girl?
It bothers me that he dont take advantage of these pretty ladys willingness to knock boots w him, CMON, were all adults here, casual sex is perfectly normal nowadays!
Im seperated, AND just having fun with numerous friends.
I like a man that is confident, but you can have a quiet confidence. It's one thing for a man to be nice, polite, and a gentleman. Some men focus on your happiness rather than their own (to a point), and many women interpret that as "too nice" because their relationships are not filled with conflicts. That is how my boyfriend is, and I admit, it took a little getting used to. There were some points that I felt he was "too nice", but I realized it was just him being laidback. He stands up for what he wants when he feels strongly.
Then, there are some men that let their women walk ALL over them. They are doormats. Tell your friend to not be afraid to make some decisions and show some assertiveness. He doesn't need to be controlling and aggressive...just assertive.
It bothers me that he dont take advantage of these pretty ladys willingness to knock boots w him, CMON, were all adults here, casual sex is perfectly normal nowadays!
Im seperated, AND just having fun with numerous friends.
You should help him man up. Break it to him ghetto style.
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This girl his with now is really pretty [my kind of girl] i gave him alot of credit for hooking up w her, but yesterday she was telling me that hes too nice, that shes too much of a witch for him, and to give him some "tips" cuz hes not aggrssive w her at all, im scared that shes going to get bored of him too and dump him! Thts my dog, so i really dont want him to get dumped, any thoughts on this? I guess girls dont really like nice passive guys
