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Old 11-11-2009, 11:00 PM
 
Location: Arkansas
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Good grief!
LOL!!! Right!!!

I say bang her and leave her! There's no rule you have to stay the night!
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Old 11-11-2009, 11:05 PM
 
Location: Miami
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Well not so much of an opinion, just can't make up my mind and need a definitive tie breaker here. Ok, this girl, who is annoying, talks to much, is really mean and condescending towards other people, thinks my dog is ugly, told me I'm too short (I'm 6'1), but she's pretty damn hot.

She keeps texting wanting me to come over tonight and have some drinks with her at her place.(I know she only wants one thing) I really dislike this girl as a person, but I am also a guy who would love to have sex with her. (assuming she wouldn't talk for the time being)

Do I do it? If I don't, no big deal. If I do, I could have some fun with a beautiful girl, but she comes with some major emotional baggage that I'm afraid will follow me till the restraining order phase.

As you can tell, I want to but I also know better.

Yes - No???
Honestly, you are at risk of being a wussy.
Have you ever heard of the bullpen?
Don't do it with her.
Play hard to get.
And call of your other girlfriends and see them instead.
I have a cat, and already I would never sleep with a girl who hated my cat.
If she is mean and condescending, she probably has self-esteem issues, and that is probably the main reason why you are even a candidate in the first place.
Dude, the only way I would do it, is if she comes begging for you at your doorstep (could happen). If that happens, simply explain to her that you don't like the way she treats other people and the way she hates your dog.
Something similar happened to me, and I explained to her why I was upset, and you know what? She still wanted to sleep with me, after having been honest with her.
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Old 11-11-2009, 11:09 PM
 
Location: AR
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Well not so much of an opinion, just can't make up my mind and need a definitive tie breaker here. Ok, this girl, who is annoying, talks to much, is really mean and condescending towards other people, thinks my dog is ugly, told me I'm too short (I'm 6'1), but she's pretty damn hot.

She keeps texting wanting me to come over tonight and have some drinks with her at her place.(I know she only wants one thing) I really dislike this girl as a person, but I am also a guy who would love to have sex with her. (assuming she wouldn't talk for the time being)

Do I do it? If I don't, no big deal. If I do, I could have some fun with a beautiful girl, but she comes with some major emotional baggage that I'm afraid will follow me till the restraining order phase.

As you can tell, I want to but I also know better.

Yes - No???
Just a tip, but if a rubber breaks or she forgets a birth control pill, you're stuck with said annoying, condescending *****. I don't mean marriage, but in one way or another she'll be in your life.

I don't want to take the moral high ground, but really, be adult enough to at least have sex with people you can stand. There are sane attractive women in every corner of the universe. Stop thinking with your dick.

Besides, she dissed your dog. Are you going to take that? If it were me, you disrespect the dog, your ass is gone.
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Old 11-11-2009, 11:45 PM
 
Location: somewhere close to Tampa, but closer to the beach
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Id just feed her to the dog..not literally of course..

Ive met a few of these "lovely" creatures before and all i can think of is "Darn..wish i had a dog who would pee on her leg"..just for the sheer enjoyment of her disgust..as i send her on her way..with a gift..such a devious fella i am
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Old 11-12-2009, 03:16 AM
 
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So, obviously I went, because I'm stooopid. But...

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Old 11-12-2009, 04:42 AM
 
Location: Tennessee
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You think she`s hot, and you want to have sex with her, but you don`t like her as a person? Hmmm... Did you put a bag over her head so she couldn`t talk?
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Old 11-12-2009, 04:49 AM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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Well not so much of an opinion, just can't make up my mind and need a definitive tie breaker here. Ok, this girl, who is annoying, talks to much, is really mean and condescending towards other people, thinks my dog is ugly, told me I'm too short (I'm 6'1), but she's pretty damn hot.

She keeps texting wanting me to come over tonight and have some drinks with her at her place.(I know she only wants one thing) I really dislike this girl as a person, but I am also a guy who would love to have sex with her. (assuming she wouldn't talk for the time being)

Do I do it? If I don't, no big deal. If I do, I could have some fun with a beautiful girl, but she comes with some major emotional baggage that I'm afraid will follow me till the restraining order phase.

As you can tell, I want to but I also know better.

Yes - No???
I think you should avoid all contact with the opposite sex until you can decide these decisions on your OWN. Jesus Christ, man.
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Old 11-12-2009, 05:18 AM
 
Location: Sunny Florida
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So, obviously I went, because I'm stooopid. But...
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Old 11-12-2009, 08:34 AM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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If she has a lot of emotional baggage, she's rude and condescending, and she's hot, you are putting yourself in the eye of the perfect storm. Let's say the sex is mind-blowing, now you're going to be hooked on someone who is clearly bad for you, like crack or meth. Let's say the sex was so-so or not so good for you, but great for her...you will probably have a stalker/crazy chick on your hands who you now like even less since she was lousy in bed. Does she know where you live? If you feel overly tempted to hook up with her, just don't take her to your place.
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Old 11-12-2009, 08:36 AM
 
Location: Southern California
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It depends on where in the STD threat meter she is.
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