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So, what happens if you get him? After a while he will start to chat, text, and talk late into the night with yet another girl. Is that what you want? If yes, then sure, go ahead and steal him, take his girlfriend's place, she'll probably be happier without him anyway.
haha because no one in the world ever has left their significant other for someone else without cheating on the person they left their first SO for, please.
hmm. great advices thanks. some are really hurtful but i guess i need that. and those who hates me for this, i get where you're getting it from. before this happened, i would have hated the person who is even thinking of doing this. but honestly its not the same when you're in the situation yourself. sooner or later you will be in my shoes. one way or another. its the circle of life. besides, this would probably help me grow and be wiser haha hopefully.
and why do you think the guy is doing this? am i just delusional? he did give me some reasons to feel this way.
if you stop fighting and play by the book ALL the time, chances are you're not gonna win any great things in life.
regardless, thank you for all your opinions. really appreaciate it.
hmm. great advices thanks. some are really hurtful but i guess i need that. and those who hates me for this, i get where you're getting it from. before this happened, i would have hated the person who is even thinking of doing this. but honestly its not the same when you're in the situation yourself. sooner or later you will be in my shoes. one way or another. its the circle of life. besides, this would probably help me grow and be wiser haha hopefully.
and why do you think the guy is doing this? am i just delusional? he did give me some reasons to feel this way.
if you stop fighting and play by the book ALL the time, chances are you're not gonna win any great things in life.
regardless, thank you for all your opinions. really appreaciate it.
hmm. great advices thanks. some are really hurtful but i guess i need that. and those who hates me for this, i get where you're getting it from. before this happened, i would have hated the person who is even thinking of doing this. but honestly its not the same when you're in the situation yourself. sooner or later you will be in my shoes. one way or another. its the circle of life. besides, this would probably help me grow and be wiser haha hopefully.
and why do you think the guy is doing this? am i just delusional? he did give me some reasons to feel this way.
if you stop fighting and play by the book ALL the time, chances are you're not gonna win any great things in life.
regardless, thank you for all your opinions. really appreaciate it.
I don't know how new you are to these parts, but you will find quickly that no one else here likes to own up to their own huge flaws. This must be God's forum because apparently it's full of angels.
I can understand your situation. I was also in a similar circumstance. I worked with a man who I grew very fond of. He asked me out, and I accompanied him, several times before I found out he had a live-in girlfriend. It was just enough time spent together to have those warm fuzzy feelings. I was of the same mind you are - I thought he was perfect for me. It took me a long time to realize that I was fooling myself. I could not just walk away - I had to tear myself away and deal with the facts
It's really easy to "fall" when you have blinders on. And when you can't see the girlfriend hurdle, your blinders have been customized to fit. You see the good you want to see and ignore the huge red flags warning of danger.
I bet his GF thinks he is perfect for her too. Can you imagine what she would think if she knew what was going on? Like you said, "sooner or later you will be in [her] shoes."
I don't know how new you are to these parts, but you will find quickly that no one else here likes to own up to their own huge flaws. This must be God's forum because apparently it's full of angels.
I can understand your situation. I was also in a similar circumstance. I worked with a man who I grew very fond of. He asked me out, and I accompanied him, several times before I found out he had a live-in girlfriend. It was just enough time spent together to have those warm fuzzy feelings. I was of the same mind you are - I thought he was perfect for me. It took me a long time to realize that I was fooling myself. I could not just walk away - I had to tear myself away and deal with the facts
It's really easy to "fall" when you have blinders on. And when you can't see the girlfriend hurdle, your blinders have been customized to fit. You see the good you want to see and ignore the huge red flags warning of danger.
I bet his GF thinks he is perfect for her too. Can you imagine what she would think if she knew what was going on? Like you said, "sooner or later you will be in [her] shoes."
that actually happened to me already. my last relationship.
and why do you think the guy is doing this? am i just delusional? he did give me some reasons to feel this way.
He wants to have sex with you because you make yourself available, he sees you often, and he knows he shouldn't.
Once he has sex with you, the "cheating guilt" will set in and he won't even aknowledge you exist.
I would trust me on this one.
And for the record...I take back my original post. You really aren't doing anything wrong as of yet. Good luck whatever you choose. Make sure to tell us if you two hook up.
He wants to have sex with you because you make yourself available, he sees you often, and he knows he shouldn't.
Once he has sex with you, the "cheating guilt" will set in and he won't even aknowledge you exist.
I would trust me on this one.
And for the record...I take back my original post. You really aren't doing anything wrong as of yet. Good luck whatever you choose. Make sure to tell us if you two hook up.
haha thanks but im strictly the 'no sex before marriage' person. call me old fashion but i prefer to be safe than sorry.
anyhow, thanks
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really appreaciate it.
