How many of you flirt and tease just for the thrill or the ego boost? (boyfriend, how to)

[dave nz]

I'm a flirter at least am when single.....no indepth reasoning other than I find it pretty enjoyable and a decent rush

[picklejuice]

Flirting, is just an invite for trouble.

Keep the marriage force field up, or prepare to make a crash landing (divorce).

[nat_at772]

I flirt all the time: men/women; young/old…I love teasing my boyfriends dad because he gets all goofy and starts grinning like a little kid. I even have a work “boo” and we flirt back and forth all day long but everyone knows I’m in a relationship so I don’t think anyone even takes me seriously LOL back when we were in college and kinda broke I’d flirt with the goofy guys at the fast food places so I could get free food.

[pitt_transplant]

Well what do you define as flirting? Doesnt that usually have a different definition for people?

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by pitt_transplant

Well what do you define as flirting? Doesnt that usually have a different definition for people?

Probably. We can never agree on the definition of a darn thing!

[TheImportersWife]

I don't flirt, but I'm not going to lie, I am flattered when people compliment me (both men and women). It motivates me to work on & maintain my physical appearance.

It's self fulfilling cycle for me. If I dress sloppy, I don't get compliments and I feel like crap and keep on dressing sloppy and potentially put on weight. If I dress up and show my figure off, I get compliments, I feel good about myself, watch my posture & my weight and keep on dressing up (because I can fit into my "figure showing" clothes.)

[andreaspercheron]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

Umm... hmm... me, too.

Also guilty! I don't even realize I'm doing it. Just part of our charming personality, right ladies?

[DennyCrane]

I don't see anything wrong with a little harmless flirting. Some people take it too far though. And some people do it because they need the validation.

[wigirl920]

Originally Posted by andreaspercheron

Also guilty! I don't even realize I'm doing it. Just part of our charming personality, right ladies?

Agreed. Harmless flirting in moderation and under the right circumstances is perfectly fine.

[le roi]

Originally Posted by PassTheChocolate

How many of you do it/have done it just for the fun of it, for the thrill or how it makes you feel wanted (when there is reciprocation) and don't really have any intention of taking it further?

all the time. seems like good clean fun to me.