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well, after I thought I was all ok with the porn thing I found something that I am sensitive about... teens. My Husband looked specifically for teen porn and it made me feel pretty bad. I am 7 years older then him which made me feel even worse. *sigh*. Just looking at porn doesn't bother me but for some reason that really got to me.
I'll be honest, I've not read a single page on this thread other than part of the first one before responding. I've seen this debate unfold so many times on forums, I feel no need to wade through it. That being said, my feedback likely mirrors some others on here somewhere. Ultimately, it's YOUR comfort zone that will call the shots on this one. You can live with what you can live with, and you can't live with what you can't, and only you know that. But rest assured that unless use of pornography is negatively impacting your sex life, your boyfriend is not choosing porn over you. He's just doing something he likes, and it's not intended to hurt you or be a reflection on you. There are men who REPLACE their human sex lives with SOs with porn use, who CAN'T and WON'T get off with anything other than porn. Women with these men need to recognize that their SOs have a problem. But if your SO isn't replacing real-life sex with fantasy sex, I wouldn't worry that there's a problem with his interest in you. However, that doesn't mean this is something you have to accept. If it bothers you, it bothers you.
well, after I thought I was all ok with the porn thing I found something that I am sensitive about... teens. My Husband looked specifically for teen porn and it made me feel pretty bad. I am 7 years older then him which made me feel even worse. *sigh*. Just looking at porn doesn't bother me but for some reason that really got to me.
Wait...you mean like the barely legal porn that shows 18 year old girls or like teen...15? 16? year olds? 'Cause that's illegal!!!
I know what you mean though! Mine went on some barely legal site that really made me mad!
Mainly because we have a daughter and all that ran through my head was my daughter posing for something like that when she turns 18 and some sick perv sitting at a computer getting his kicks by looking at her! GAG!!! Plus, I'm not getting any younger! I can only stay so youthful and do so much to look young!
well, after I thought I was all ok with the porn thing I found something that I am sensitive about... teens. My Husband looked specifically for teen porn and it made me feel pretty bad. I am 7 years older then him which made me feel even worse. *sigh*. Just looking at porn doesn't bother me but for some reason that really got to me.
Ick. I think I'd be packing my bags. Teen porn? No thank you.
Plus, I'm not getting any younger! I can only stay so youthful and do so much to look young!
It just said teen.. I am guessing 18, 19 and I think what you said is why. I will never ever look like that again and can't compete with that. **sigh*** guess I'll just get over it
It just said teen.. I am guessing 18, 19 and I think what you said is why. I will never ever look like that again and can't compete with that. **sigh*** guess I'll just get over it
And men wonder why women get botox, implants, lifts, tucks, hair dyed, etc!
even still.. just the idea that he seeked out girls that much younger then me makes me feel a bit bad. Maybe I'm being silly I dunno.
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Plus, I'm not getting any younger! I can only stay so youthful and do so much to look young!
