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Old 01-18-2010, 09:28 AM
 
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How the heck can you meet someone on FaceBook? Its not possible. Facebook is not a "meeting" or "find a date" type of website. Did you mean your facebook friends introduced him to you?
Yes one of my friends introduced me to him, and no I don't accept or add people I don't know. I asked him once if he wanted to hang out sometime but his answer was sometime in the far future. I know all what is going in his life, even with his family, friends and everything because I have to ask questions (to keep conversations going) which apparently he likes but I feel he knows very few things about me.
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Old 01-18-2010, 09:47 AM
 
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Yes one of my friends introduced me to him, and no I don't accept or add people I don't know. I asked him once if he wanted to hang out sometime but his answer was sometime in the far future. I know all what is going in his life, even with his family, friends and everything because I have to ask questions (to keep conversations going) which apparently he likes but I feel he knows very few things about me.
Do not waste one single second more of your time on this person.
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Old 01-18-2010, 09:53 AM
 
Location: SoCal - Sherman Oaks & Woodland Hills
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Yes one of my friends introduced me to him, and no I don't accept or add people I don't know.
Then you didnt really meet him on Facebook. You met him because you were introduced by your friend. Your question was quite misleading now wasnt it?
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Old 01-18-2010, 05:49 PM
 
Location: The cupboard under the sink
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Sounds like "I want to be friends" to me.

I think if you are hoping for anything more, you may be disappointed i'm afraid.
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Old 01-19-2010, 01:24 AM
 
Location: 2nd state in the union...
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Yes one of my friends introduced me to him, and no I don't accept or add people I don't know. I asked him once if he wanted to hang out sometime but his answer was sometime in the far future. I know all what is going in his life, even with his family, friends and everything because I have to ask questions (to keep conversations going) which apparently he likes but I feel he knows very few things about me.
If he doesn't want to put forth any effort to get to know you and doesn't want to think about hanging out until 'the far future' then I think you're probably just wasting your time, unfortunately.
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Old 01-19-2010, 11:13 AM
 
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You're his back up. If the chick or chicks he's trying to get with aren't responding to him then he probably tries to contact you. Dump this fool and move on.
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Old 01-19-2010, 12:41 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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So...you two used to talk alot online, but now there is not much conversation going on, or is this how it was then to?
Meh. Doesn`t sound like much chemistry there. Move on.
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Old 01-19-2010, 12:52 PM
 
Location: CITY OF ANGELS AND CONSTANT DANGER
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meet people in real life and not online. that way you can really gauge the relationship. and its easier to hold people accountable face to face.
otherwise just get used to him "logging off" on you.

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So I met this man few months ago on facebook. we used to talk a lot online, then he disappeared for a while and I was busy with work. He started texting me these last days, but he just starts the conversation or send me pictures of him and then I have to do the do the whole thing and ask questions...so he is not interested? or maybe he lacks of verbal communication skills maybe it is just me. He is usually silent around me, but he talks a lot when with his friends and he is more enthusiastic and acts more normal.

thoughts? solutions?
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Old 01-19-2010, 01:25 PM
 
Location: East Valley, AZ
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He is usually silent around me, but he talks a lot when with his friends and he is more enthusiastic and acts more normal.
How do you know this if you've never met him??

Something is off here...
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Old 01-19-2010, 01:47 PM
 
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So I met this man few months ago on facebook. we used to talk a lot online, then he disappeared for a while and I was busy with work. He started texting me these last days, but he just starts the conversation or send me pictures of him and then I have to do the do the whole thing and ask questions...so he is not interested? or maybe he lacks of verbal communication skills maybe it is just me. He is usually silent around me, but he talks a lot when with his friends and he is more enthusiastic and acts more normal.

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If you haven't met in in REAL LIFE, then you haven't met. You could be communicating with an 8 year old girl. This just sounds childish. Ignore any further communications and remove him from your FB. Sheesh.
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