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Alright, coming from a dude....... this has been the most misogynistic thread I have seen here in a while.
And the usual suspects have agglomerated as expected.
Rep'crat, you write a lot about your morals and values, and this thread does paint a different picture, man
There was nothing wrong with this female. You just hit the roof coz the kid came in the way of your plan of shagging her for the night, much to your chagrin. Your reaction is totally uncalled for and you've set the stage for a debate of someone's innocent child for a bastard
I always wonder how karma will play out for some of these folks. Imagine the shock and horror of people making statements like these when they find out their parents weren't married when they were conceived...hence, bastard calling someone a bastard.... Or an unplanned pregnancy in your "yet unborn" child's future. Some people are so crude, it's unbelievable. It is really so unimpressive.
OMG!!!!!!!
I was born 9 months to the day from my parents wedding but my mother always complained that I was late arriving in that sweltering summer. Could it be true?
Dont forget everyone, that many of these single parent slores (this includes many single fathers) are only going to be more bitter and even worse partners than they would have been originally due to their poor decision making skills which resulted in their prior bad relationship...
and once they've got you on the hook, its up to the state to decide whether you'll be tethered to the loser for the rest of lil Timmy's childhood (until 18) ... and sometimes even if the parent moves on and finds some other sucker, you will still be on the hook for that child support if the state wants you to be....if u're desperate for company get a pet or something but whatever you do, weigh your decision carefully before you decide to be a sucker.
Don't forget everyone, that many of these single parents (this includes many single fathers) are only going to be more bitter and even worse partners than they would have been originally due to their poor decision making skills which resulted in their prior bad relationship...
Alright, coming from a dude....... this has been the most misogynistic thread I have seen here in a while.
And the usual suspects have agglomerated as expected.
Rep'crat, you write a lot about your morals and values, and this thread does paint a different picture, man
There was nothing wrong with this female. You just hit the roof coz the kid came in the way of your plan of shagging her for the night, much to your chagrin. Your reaction is totally uncalled for and you've set the stage for a debate of someone's innocent child for a bastard
You sir, ARE a gentleman - and an intelligent one at that
very good read there especially #7...I think that is an oft overlooked aspect of being a surrogate...you'll never really be the true parent..your rights only go so far..except when it comes to child support that is...then you're free to bear all of the responsibility for the bastard that the biological deadbeat wouldnt take (#13)....Ill take heed to the advice in that article...doing so should keep me away from the unwanteds.
Sorry about being insensitive but I lately I have come across a few broads who expect a man like me, 32, single, no children to basically put a hold on his personal life and be a Dad to their children while Dad is nowhere to be found.
Why in the HELL would anybody sign up for something like this? I guess, unless you are desperate or have no self respect, I don't see a logical reason to do this.
I met a girl a few weeks ago and after I came to her house for the first time, she was all like "Well, we have to make a decision now, can you handle me and my son?" I was like, honey, I barely know you, and how the **** do you expect me to make a decision?
Some crazy women out there!
Uhm, burning your house down is crazy, hiring a PI to follow you is crazy, going through your drawers and pockets is crazy, keying your car is crazy, stalking you is crazy. Asking you up front if her and her child are going to be a problem, no, NOT crazy. This gives you time to get out of the relationship before you get intimate with her.
If you don't want a women with children, then don't date them - end of story. Really, it is that SIMPLE.
Uhm, burning your house down is crazy, hiring a PI to follow you is crazy, going through your drawers and pockets is crazy, keying your car is crazy, stalking you is crazy. Asking you up front if her and her child are going to be a problem, no, NOT crazy. This gives you time to get out of the relationship before you get intimate with her.
If you don't want a women with children, then don't date them - end of story. Really, it is that SIMPLE.
You missed the part where he admits he KNEW she had a kid, but he thought he could score anyway, until she asked HIM to leave!
The whole thing sounds like sour grapes to me.
As you stated, it really is very simple - if you don't want kids in your life, don't try to date or sleep with mothers
as the economy tightens up-- women are slowly learning, for the single woman, children are a liability--- as have the french known for a long time.
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