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I'm not sure how to ask this without being explicit, but I'll try. Does it hurt when you don't have sex, but you really should have... if you know what I mean??
My husband says no, but I've "heard" from other men that yes indeed it does hurt. DH says it's just something guys say to have sex. So what do you all think??
It hurts when it changes: during dry spells it's kind of eventually gets used to, but when it changes either way then it gets icky. One thing I love my married life for is the steady heartbeat that does not subject me to transitional aches. Sex is a powerful thing, psychologically and physiologically, the most powerful things about living beings, so when you get into it, it hits on your hormones, your metabolism, your most innerwards wiring, thus transitions from some to none hits the same.
I agree with your hubby, Sandycat. I've heard otherwise, but I think any pain is no more than a beggar's tool.
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