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Old 09-25-2009, 10:23 AM
 
Location: OKC
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So someone asked, "How quick is a quickie?"

Most replies have leaned towards the wham, bam, thank you ma'am blazing speed.

I have asked that same question in person to some female friends of mine. Their typical response is that it needs to last long enough to satisfy both partners, but yet quick enough to not get caught.

My question for this forum: If the time is indeed measured in seconds, how can this really be satisfying for most women? If needed, can a woman bring herself to climax as fast as a man can? Or are they satisfied just knowing the man is satisfied? Ugh. Don't be the latter. I'll puke.
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Old 09-25-2009, 10:29 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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A quickie is about two minutes. Sometimes you get yours, sometimes you don't, and that goes for either person. Brace yourself ... I don't have to get mine every single time we have a quickie, because he will take care of me later. And vice versa. I'm sorry if you puked just now.
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Old 09-25-2009, 10:32 AM
 
Location: OKC
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A quickie is about two minutes. Sometimes you get yours, sometimes you don't, and that goes for either person. Brace yourself ... I don't have to get mine every single time we have a quickie, because he will take care of me later. And vice versa. I'm sorry if you puked just now.
No puking. That wasn't a, "Oh, I love him so. I just want to make him happy and I'm happy" type answer...
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Old 09-25-2009, 10:33 AM
 
Location: NW. MO.
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So someone asked, "How quick is a quickie?"

Most replies have leaned towards the wham, bam, thank you ma'am blazing speed.

I have asked that same question in person to some female friends of mine. Their typical response is that it needs to last long enough to satisfy both partners, but yet quick enough to not get caught.

My question for this forum: If the time is indeed measured in seconds, how can this really be satisfying for most women? If needed, can a woman bring herself to climax as fast as a man can? Or are they satisfied just knowing the man is satisfied? Ugh. Don't be the latter. I'll puke.
I think it takes longer in general for a woman to get heated up but...
I know for me if I've been already thinking about sex and already warmed up a quickie is all I need and there are plenty of times I just don't want or need extended foreplay.

Women have a lot of things to do in life now, it's nice to get that quickie and then get back to business.
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Old 09-25-2009, 10:40 AM
 
Location: OKC
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I think it takes longer in general for a woman to get heated up but...
I know for me if I've been already thinking about sex and already warmed up a quickie is all I need and there are plenty of times I just don't want or need extended foreplay.

Women have a lot of things to do in life now, it's nice to get that quickie and then get back to business.
I swear I am always learning something new about women.

So when my real life friends told me, "long enough to satisfy both parties" they were not meaning it needs to take five plus minutes. Just a couple might be enough...
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Old 09-25-2009, 11:18 AM
 
Location: The cupboard under the sink
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some people's quickies are longer than others.
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Old 09-25-2009, 11:19 AM
 
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I swear I am always learning something new about women.

So when my real life friends told me, "long enough to satisfy both parties" they were not meaning it needs to take five plus minutes. Just a couple might be enough...
Uh, yeah. If the woman is randy enough, she'll easily beat you to it.
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Old 09-25-2009, 11:33 AM
 
Location: Southern California
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The person with the lower libido determines how a quickie turns out

(I asked the question earlier).
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Old 09-25-2009, 11:35 AM
 
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Excuse me ladies...

I don't mean to crash the "Woman" thread...

However, I would like to comment.

First, I like Julia's comment. Beating the guy to it. I think the woman is just as turned on about doing this quickie as the man. She is probably already flowing and excited before anything happens. It's the thrill of it all. You know, when you tell her what you are going to do to her type of thing.

Honestly, you can take a few minutes before hand while getting into it to manually stimulate her before penetration. Can I say that on here? Anyways, by that time she is already into the experience.
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Old 09-25-2009, 11:35 AM
 
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A quickie is about two minutes. Sometimes you get yours, sometimes you don't, and that goes for either person. Brace yourself ... I don't have to get mine every single time we have a quickie, because he will take care of me later. And vice versa. I'm sorry if you puked just now.
what she said...and yes sometimes women are so hot it just takes a "quickie"
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