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Well it is common sense...but it seems, as a whole, there is an imbalance of respect between men and women Could be because of the feminist movement which empowered women, but also made them overpowered to the point where they can easily trash another man for his despicable actions, but men can't easily do the same to women in a similar situation...or else they scream sexism
Since I have lived I have heard so many times that a man should respect a woman. But I don't think I have once heard someone say that a woman should have respect for a man. What is this all about?
It's about treating others with kindness, caring, respect, civility, and decency. It doesn't mean being a doormat, idiot, or tool, but it does mean not being a selfish jerk. It's missing too often in many relationships. And, yes, it transcends gender lines.
Since I have lived I have heard so many times that a man should respect a woman. But I don't think I have once heard someone say that a woman should have respect for a man. What is this all about?
I think it's because men are aggressive, cold, mean and sometimes are unaware of their ability to inflict pain so they constantly need to be told that they need to be aware of that.
So to me, "respect" is just another word for telling a man to watch himself around the ladies which is why men are told this more so then women.
Ideally the respect should be mutual. With that said, respect yourself first and all else follows. And be respectable. If she does not respect you nevertheless, then I say dismiss her and forget about trying to win her 'respect'.
After reading the OP message, I did some thinking about the men I know who attract women. They have a lot of attributes both good and bad but respect is not a characteristic that I would apply to them.
Respect is something that one gives to those who are big net contributors to family and community. Its considered old fashioned. Its something that people somewhat older than me still appreciate, around my age far fewer do and among the younger crowd, its actually considered a negative.
People are jaded and cynical today. Few are willing to put themselves out unless there is an immediate payoff. This is how they pursue relationships too.
Ideally the respect should be mutual. With that said, respect yourself first and all else follows. And be respectable. If she does not respect you nevertheless, then I say dismiss her and forget about trying to win her 'respect'.
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Could be because of the feminist movement which empowered women, but also made them overpowered to the point where they can easily trash another man for his despicable actions, but men can't easily do the same to women in a similar situation...or else they scream sexism
