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Old 03-07-2010, 09:19 PM
 
Location: lala land
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LOL - not particularly. Just that she's a convenient, pretty toy to play with when the mood strikes.
EEeeeewwww, gross . My first thought is, maybe he's gay? Maybe he really doesn't like the companionship of women. Its not uncommon for gay men to marry women.
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Old 03-07-2010, 09:20 PM
 
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EEeeeewwww, gross . My first thought is, maybe he's gay? Maybe he really doesn't like the companionship of women. Its not uncommon for gay men to marry women.
I agree. Dan Majerle did it.
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Old 03-07-2010, 09:23 PM
 
Location: Wu Dang Mountain
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Sounds like my RC car. But I always get carried away with it and it gets out of range and dumped into a lake. Sorry...I'm still imaging a sneaky person breaking into TVSG's room and tickling him.
I just hope my friend never gets out of range, only to find herself dumped in a lake.

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My first thought is, maybe he's gay?
I really don't think so. Last I heard, though, they were sleeping in separate rooms. Up until that point, I think the frequency of intimate contact negates the idea of him being gay.
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Old 03-07-2010, 09:25 PM
 
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I really don't think so. Last I heard, though, they were sleeping in separate rooms. Up until that point, I think the frequency of intimate contact negates the idea of him being gay.
Just because he's having sex with her does not mean he's not gay.
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Old 03-07-2010, 09:28 PM
 
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How old is this guy?

Maybe he's one of those older generation males who thinks women should perform their wifely duties and otherwise stay out of the way. There are pigs like that out there, unfortunately.
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Old 03-07-2010, 09:29 PM
 
Location: Wu Dang Mountain
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Just because he's having sex with her does not mean he's not gay.
It would mean he's bi-.

Unless of course he's forcing himself to perform...which I doubt, but I suppose it could be possible.
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Old 03-07-2010, 09:31 PM
 
Location: Wu Dang Mountain
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How old is this guy?

Maybe he's one of those older generation males who thinks women should perform their wifely duties and otherwise stay out of the way. There are pigs like that out there, unfortunately.
Oh, let's see...he's something like 55 or 56, she's 53. Remember, though, they DID agree to the Pig Contract before getting hitched...it's just now she's getting tired of it, and the level of detachment / viciousness seems to have been cranked up to a new level.
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Old 03-07-2010, 09:34 PM
 
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It would mean he's bi-.

Unless of course he's forcing himself to perform...which I doubt, but I suppose it could be possible.
It sounds like he probably is, just my opinion.
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Old 03-07-2010, 09:36 PM
 
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It sounds like he probably is, just my opinion.
Hmmmm...gives me something new to think about - thanks, AAE.
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Old 03-07-2010, 10:36 PM
 
Location: In my skin
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I have never had this particular type of deal, but I have been put on the shelf, so to speak. Good enough to tie me down, have me on his arm in some situations or when he wanted other men to know I was taken, good enough for the intimacy, good enough to be with when he wanted me there on his schedule. But he kept me separate from his kids and kept me a secret from his ex wife with the excuse that the kids weren't ready for a new woman in his life and it was none of the ex's business that he had a girlfriend. I felt used, it sucked. I left him.

Sounds to me like this is more of a sugardaddy-ish arrangement. She represents a clean home, a home cooked meal, sex when he wants it - she serves a purpose. She is an extention of him, not an individual entitled to having her needs met. She may have been okay with it when they started out, but people evolve. Sounds like the trade-off has lost it's luster.

I can't imagine any verbal agreement that would force someone to stay in an unhappy relationship being binding.
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