Where to find introverted/non-partiers? (dates, women, older, college)

[NYchi]

I'm a 25 Y.O. female, and most of the men around my age are still stuck in that party mode. Where can I look to find men who are a bit more serious and not into partying every weekend?

[RichardW]

Buxton, Derbyshire. But I'm 22 and England may be a long way away.

[SifuPhil]

Bookstores, coffee houses, museums might be good bets.

I'd avoid the bingo parlors, though - 25-year-olds don't do well finding dates there, or if they do, they usually regret it.

[MAtheBanker]

Provo, Utah.

[Curmudgeon]

I suppose senior centers are out of the question!

[Jays1983]

Originally Posted by NYchi

I'm a 25 Y.O. female, and most of the men around my age are still stuck in that party mode. Where can I look to find men who are a bit more serious and not into partying every weekend?

Cub Scouts

[TKramar]

Seriously, you might try a library or museum.

[WFW&P]

Originally Posted by Jays1983

Cub Scouts

10 yrs in prison she'll appreciate those partyers

[Paxtonian]

Get involved in some hobby that's mostly of interest to introverts. The guys will all fall for you because you're interested in what they're interested in.

[TreedleDee]

At Columbus Circle, where the fresh market is in the ground floor (I think it's Time Warner Building?), there is a bookstore on the second floor. I've gone there and seen many College students reading and some talking. You and I are older than they are but so are a lot of other men and women who go there to read and talk.

There is also the Museum across the street which has different collections monthly. The paper exhibit this Fall was phenomenal.

I'm assuming you live in the City.