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How come you guys coddle her? Seriously, you guys need to tell her what she needs to hear, not what she wants.
who knows why another guy didn't call for a third. . . i've not called dozens of times and I don't even know why myself. it's just there or it isn't after a couple dates. I don't think the kiss had anything to do with it. . . his mind was likely made up before then.
Welcome to the world of dating LOL if it were another guy he would have expected less. It seems you can't win and although men complain that we are too fickle and complicated, they don't make it easy for us. Keep your chin up, keep dating. There is a man for you out there.
What? She shouldn't just keep dating right now. The entire world isn't wrong, there is just something wrong with her. She needs to fix it before taking poor guys on a wild roller coaster of crazy emotions.
Honestly I don't know why she gets coddled. If anyone can tell me the difference between the OP and Joei, I'd like to hear them.
On here all you do is talk about your hookups, or how you used to strip, or porn or sex. I can't imagine that your dates are all that much different. If you want a guy to be interested in YOU...you have to be interesting.
What do you like to do? What are your hopes and dreams?
Sex constitutes what, 2% of a week, at most? It's just not that interesting, and if that's all that is being advertised that is all the shoppers you will get.
You are also negative and reference how annoying you find people and how much you hate children? What, who hates children? I'd never want to hear that from a woman.
I'll bet dollars to donuts, that he was thinking with his penis. When you stopped him, his mind took over, and talked him out of it. The only thing I'll blame this guy for, is that he can't tell you he's no longer interested.
LOL this made me laugh..Talk about all my hookups?? I just got out of a 4.5 year relationship over 6 months ago and have mentioned two people I have "hooked up" with since then. How is that ALL my hookups?? Give me a break.
The fact that I've mentioned me being a stripper is a fact. I've been one and so what?? Porn or sex?? How does me talking about those two make me any different then any of the other women on here commenting?? Because I'm more open minded towards it than others or that I'm not afraid to discuss it?? I would think that would be a bonus in that department if anything.
As far as my dates, no one knows I've danced. Its none of their business until I decide it is. Period
I never said I hate kids. I don't like them. I don't want them. Why does that make me such an evil person?? Just because I have the body parts to reproduce, doesn't mean I have to!
Sex is 2% of a week?? LOL I don't know what kind of sex your having or how frequently but I can guarantee that when Im in a relationship its at a much higher percentage than that.
Finally, I don't know what your deal is with me but I don't appreciate the constant digs so back off. You don't know me and haven't been on here long enough to sit here and make those very off comments about me or to me. People who "know" me on here know what I'm about and they can appreciate me..
So match boy has not responded to my texts or phone calls. I have NO idea of what happened. We had a great second date. However, I feel it might have to do with the fact that he went in for a kiss, which I did give him, but I didn't get my tongue involved. It was just an awkward location (in my car). Now normally I have no problem with an in car makeout but I really would have preferred our first real kiss to be outside of the car where he can hug me (nice big body). I was thinking of taking him to dinner on Friday and seeing what happens there but I guess not now. I'm thinking it maybe came down to the fact that he spent $100 that evening and all he got was a couple lip kisses??
I don't get it..If you give it up too easily, you're a hoe. If you behave, you're prude.
It might be something else that has nothing to do with you. Honestly, I wouldn't be pissed if I went for a kiss and got no tongue, I'm usually surprised when I do get tongue.
You can't go into this thinking that it's YOUR fault. Some people just aren't interested and move on. He has no balls for not telling you straight up, but that alone should be enough of a turnoff for you to forget about him, he's not worth it.
Just move on, leave it behind you, don't carry the baggage with you to the next guy because we can smell it.
This is very true. In computer terms I like to think of mine as another hard drive. It's kind of like a backup system, if my big head has trouble processing information then my little head swings into action.
On here all you do is talk about your hookups, or how you used to strip, or porn or sex. I can't imagine that your dates are all that much different. If you want a guy to be interested in YOU...you have to be interesting.
What do you like to do? What are your hopes and dreams?
Sex constitutes what, 2% of a week, at most? It's just not that interesting, and if that's all that is being advertised that is all the shoppers you will get.
You are also negative and reference how annoying you find people and how much you hate children? What, who hates children? I'd never want to hear that from a woman.
I'll bet dollars to donuts, that he was thinking with his penis. When you stopped him, his mind took over, and talked him out of it. The only thing I'll blame this guy for, is that he can't tell you he's no longer interested.
People don't act on dates the way they express thoughts or feelings on this MB...
It's not fair to judge her and assume what her dates are like.
I mentioned earlier I wouldn't think any different from the kiss if there was tongue or no tongue.
Honestly, I agree with making the move to kiss a girl on the 1st REAL date, for online dating the 2nd date is more the real date as the 1st one is just a meeting.
I use the first kiss simply as a barometer to bottom line her actions. Knowing well that women will go on a date and spend time with a guy eventhough she doesn't feel physical attraction toward or knows he's not LTR potential, kissing her early forces her to play her hand and at least give me an idea of where I stand. If I'm not in the running, I want to know right away, and kissing her will tell me. I take a short, simple, no tongue kiss as a good sign in my book. Tongue from her is a great sign, as well as a prolonged kiss. Obviously backing away or a turning of the head and no kiss means she is not into me and I will not call her again. Even if it catches her off guard, if she has interest she will kiss me, and if she turns her head it means she doesn't even if it's the first time she's realizing it.
You go on too many dates with a girl without making the kiss then you quickly become her new best friend. Making the kiss shows confidence and interest, and if she feels the same she'll be glad you made the move. Tongue or anything else shouldn't be a requirement by any means.
People don't act on dates the way they express thoughts or feelings on this MB...
It's not fair to judge her and assume what her dates are like.
If you are going to post something on an online forum, that is exactly what you are asking for; somebody to judge you and the situation.
I just can't imagine this person is so much more complex in real life. She's pretty shallow. Also she really has no credibility...so I have to assume that a lot of the reason he doesn't come back is he just doesn't like her that much. Honestly I wouldn't be surprised. It's a pattern here.
I just can't imagine this person is so much more complex in real life. She's pretty shallow. Also she really has no credibility...so I have to assume that a lot of the reason he doesn't come back is he just doesn't like her that much. Honestly I wouldn't be surprised. It's a pattern here.
Your post sounds very hostile and I really don't get it. I think she has a good sense of humor and I enjoy reading her posts. You need to lighten up.
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It's kind of like a backup system, if my big head has trouble processing information then my little head swings into action.
