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If you are going to post something on an online forum, that is exactly what you are asking for; somebody to judge you and the situation.
I just can't imagine this person is so much more complex in real life. She's pretty shallow. Also she really has no credibility...so I have to assume that a lot of the reason he doesn't come back is he just doesn't like her that much. Honestly I wouldn't be surprised. It's a pattern here.
I think himain is a young gal looking for love, warmth, compassion from a soulmate, like what many other folks are looking for.
If you are going to post something on an online forum, that is exactly what you are asking for; somebody to judge you and the situation.
I just can't imagine this person is so much more complex in real life. She's pretty shallow. Also she really has no credibility...so I have to assume that a lot of the reason he doesn't come back is he just doesn't like her that much. Honestly I wouldn't be surprised. It's a pattern here.
I'm shallow?? I have no credibility?? How did you come to these conclusions??
I'm really not that complex. If you think a strong, intelligent woman who doesn't put up with BS is complex, then that's your issue!!
Thanks guys for sticking up for me..I have no idea of what the problem is here..
If you are going to post something on an online forum, that is exactly what you are asking for; somebody to judge you and the situation.
I just can't imagine this person is so much more complex in real life. She's pretty shallow. Also she really has no credibility...so I have to assume that a lot of the reason he doesn't come back is he just doesn't like her that much. Honestly I wouldn't be surprised. It's a pattern here.
As unpopular you are there's some truth to what you're saying in that if she's getting the same result over and over then she needs to change something.
My personal experience was with my online profile. I had tried to be really unique and separate myself from all the other boring profiles out there, but I wasn't getting any emails back for months. I thought I was just unatractive. I had a C-Der review it, she helped me tweak it slightly and now I'm confident enough to know I'll get responses from emails now. So far going well.
The OP should probably try and change something, but none of us can make a clear judgement of what that is without being there or knowing her in person.
I've even asked girls I've dated what I did wrong but I never got an answer that I could use to help or improve myself, they always say I was fine and I did nothing wrong and want to be friends.
I'm shallow?? I have no credibility?? How did you come to these conclusions??
I'm really not that complex. If you think a strong, intelligent woman who doesn't put up with BS is complex, then that's your issue!!
Thanks guys for sticking up for me..I have no idea of what the problem is here..
You just admitted my point. They are sticking up for you. What they need to do is tell you how to fix your problems. The first problem is that you are oblivious to people around you. The second is that you are a narcissist. I'm just trying to help. If you only want people to cuddle you, stick to PMs.
They are sticking up for me against you attacking me and saying incorrect things. You really have no idea of what you are talking about and I would appreciate you not responding to my posts anymore.
LOL this made me laugh..Talk about all my hookups?? I just got out of a 4.5 year relationship over 6 months ago and have mentioned two people I have "hooked up" with since then. How is that ALL my hookups?? Give me a break.
The fact that I've mentioned me being a stripper is a fact. I've been one and so what?? Porn or sex?? How does me talking about those two make me any different then any of the other women on here commenting?? Because I'm more open minded towards it than others or that I'm not afraid to discuss it?? I would think that would be a bonus in that department if anything.
As far as my dates, no one knows I've danced. Its none of their business until I decide it is. Period
I never said I hate kids. I don't like them. I don't want them. Why does that make me such an evil person?? Just because I have the body parts to reproduce, doesn't mean I have to!
Sex is 2% of a week?? LOL I don't know what kind of sex your having or how frequently but I can guarantee that when Im in a relationship its at a much higher percentage than that.
Finally, I don't know what your deal is with me but I don't appreciate the constant digs so back off. You don't know me and haven't been on here long enough to sit here and make those very off comments about me or to me. People who "know" me on here know what I'm about and they can appreciate me..
There are guys out there who would be glad to meet a good-looking gal who does not want kids. They may not be thick on the ground, but, trust me on this, you would not be a hard "sale" to the right guy.
Now the conflicted, religious types, the conformists, the herd followers, won't be eager to have any sort of relationship with you.
I think they are doing you a favor by passing you by though!
Tried to rep you for that but have to spread the love around first. But, you go, girl, if you look in the right place, you will find guys who will appreciate you. Hell, if I were single (and probably 20 years younger would not hurt...)
You just admitted my point. They are sticking up for you. What they need to do is tell you how to fix your problems. The first problem is that you are oblivious to people around you. The second is that you are a narcissist.
Listen, I've enjoyed reading some of your posts and you're probably a nice guy but attacking someone violates the TOS and if you keep doing this I'm going to start reporting your posts. There's no need for this, you have a sense of humor and have written some good posts but you seriously need to stop doing this.
Listen, I've enjoyed reading some of your posts and you're probably a nice guy but attacking someone violates the TOS and if you keep doing this I'm going to start reporting your posts. There's no need for this, you have a sense of humor and have written some good posts but you seriously need to stop doing this.
Go for it. Look the fact of the matter is that all she does is talk about what she is. She never shows it. I can say I'm the Queen of Canada all day long. It doesn't mean I am. I'm attacking ideas she's put out there. But then again I've seen how some of the mods act around here, and I've heard that this poster gets preferential treatment from mods, anyways.
If she was so awesome, she'd be able to defend herself, you know. The innocent can easily defend themselves.
Listen if you were a real "friend" of hers, then you'd offer her some tough advice. It's obvious to quite a lot of people she needs it. I'm just the loudmouth saying it. Spend more time giving her real advice, and less time reporting posts that don't meet the status quo, around here.
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