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Tell me what you all think of this: So I met someone on line 4 months ago and immediately we established a sexual relationship. He came over only for that purpose. Then he stopped calling when he said he would so I just threw out his number. Four months later, he calls and we get together last night....to hook up again upon mutual agreement. He drives to my place, 1 hour away from where he lives. So after we had our little rendevous, we were lying there and he says: "I feel used and I feel disgusted. You raped me." I looked at him to figure out if he were playing or not, so I ignore it. He says it again, only now he says: "I'm feeling molested, you raped me." Kiddingly, I say, "what's wrong with that?". He continued to say the same things, sounding more and more freaked out. I began to feel freaked out and unsafe, so I said it would be a good idea for him to leave. He didn't he just laid there and continued, I got dressed, he continued on his tirade. Increasingly, I became more and more offended and unsafe so I got his clothes threw them at him, and in a very loud and forceful way I told him to get out. Then he said to calm down and said I needed to get a sense of humor. Then he said I was way to serious and that he was just kidding. I told him to leave but he wouldn't and tried to embrace me and get-on again. I told him he was offensive and an a.h. Wasn't that totally out of line?
Tell me what you all think of this: So I met someone on line 4 months ago and immediately we established a sexual relationship. He came over only for that purpose. Then he stopped calling when he said he would so I just threw out his number. Four months later, he calls and we get together last night....to hook up again upon mutual agreement. He drives to my place, 1 hour away from where he lives. So after we had our little rendevous, we were lying there and he says: "I feel used and I feel disgusted. You raped me." I looked at him to figure out if he were playing or not, so I ignore it. He says it again, only now he says: "I'm feeling molested, you raped me." Kiddingly, I say, "what's wrong with that?". He continued to say the same things, sounding more and more freaked out. I began to feel freaked out and unsafe, so I said it would be a good idea for him to leave. He didn't he just laid there and continued, I got dressed, he continued on his tirade. Increasingly, I became more and more offended and unsafe so I got his clothes threw them at him, and in a very loud and forceful way I told him to get out. Then he said to calm down and said I needed to get a sense of humor. Then he said I was way to serious and that he was just kidding. I told him to leave but he wouldn't and tried to embrace me and get-on again. I told him he was offensive and an a.h. Wasn't that totally out of line?
What do you expect?
You let intellect take a back seat to personal gratification , and for that you must suffer the consequences. For all you know , he could be a serial killer or anything , but no , 'he was just too sexy , and I had to have him'. Give me a break!!
You played Russian Roulette with blanks and pulled the trigger on the loaded chamber. Next time , someone may be posting here , 'Booty call turned deadly' , and continues with a vivid description of how he played the 'used and abused' role , then turned the tables. Then 3 weeks later , authorities find you floating in a lake.
You must either be young , or living a second adolescence.
'You better wake up - before it's too late.
Or they'll be doing your makeup
Down at the coroner's place
And you will have lived , just to die
And you'll die with no respect'
quoted from a time when music had a message , but hopefully you catch my drift.
Look at the chain of events. You played a role in it as well.
The others are right. This could have turned out way worse.
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