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Even the so called nicest of "nice guys" turn pervy with me too quick...
I don't even use potty words, or talk that way, and have to constantly turn the conversations to more wholesome ground, and well, it is getting quite depressing.
I miss and crave spiritual and intellectual conversation, but don't know what the heck is wrong.
I am wondering with my weight loss if I should get a breast reduction since that seems to be where the conversation allways goes...
And it is NOT the way I dress... it dosen't seem to matter what I wear, but I am seriously starting to consider this if I am ever going to meet a decent guy, with a decent foundation laid down for a relationship, besides just them loving a large chest...
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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Oh no, not the, 'Men lust after me because' curse. There are plenty of men around who aren't like that, who don't even like excess. I'd have to wonder where you go, where you hang out that even so-called nice guys do it. Seriously.
Even the so called nicest of "nice guys" turn pervy with me too quick...
I don't even use potty words, or talk that way, and have to constantly turn the conversations to more wholesome ground, and well, it is getting quite depressing.
I miss and crave spiritual and intellectual conversation, but don't know what the heck is wrong.
I am wondering with my weight loss if I should get a breast reduction since that seems to be where the conversation allways goes...
And it is NOT the way I dress... it dosen't seem to matter what I wear, but I am seriously starting to consider this if I am ever going to meet a decent guy, with a decent foundation laid down for a relationship, besides just them loving a large chest...
I know what is wrong. It's one thing to want something, it's another to go out and get it. What do you have to offer somebody? I've asked this a million times and you always get confused. Once you can answer that question you may start to find your luck changing.
When you're double Fs it going to be the first thing people notice, male or female... I mean..how can you miss them. Just had this conversation with someone I know last nite, she loves the attention but wants a reduction so she can find clothes that fit.
Analyze it more deeply. Where are you usually finding these guys? If you want spiritual and intellectual conversation, a bar/club/that sort of thing ain't gonna be the place to find it.
Case in point: I'm a decent guy, I plan on having a decent foundation (I'm 18 so about the only things I have to my name are my modest bank account, my Xbox and computer), and I love chests of all types :P point being that you're probably not looking for men in the right places if they're all like that.
While I don't have such a problem/blessing (however you look at it), I can relate to it in a way, and I do think having huge boobs disproportionate to your frame can certainly expose you to men of lesser quality. Yeah, I'm perfectly aware I'll get flack for this opinion as we've discussed the caliber of guys enchanted by big breasts before.
I mean honestly what are these guys saying? "You work at (insert company name here)? Nice! Almost as nice as those rockin' ****!"? If so you've gotta be hanging out at a biker bar or something, I can't imagine a civilized person sayin that sort of stuff to an acquaintance.
PM me a photo and I'll let you know my opinion on the subject
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There are plenty of men around who aren't like that, who don't even like excess. I'd have to wonder where you go, where you hang out that even so-called nice guys do it. Seriously. 
