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i met this girl weeks ago,we ve been out few times, then we had sex, after the sex, i called her back, and talked again on internet, but she said she wants to be friends at this moment, she cant decide what she wants now. she said there are few men like her too, she cant decide now.
i really like her, i want a long term relationship with her. what should i do now?
can anyone give me some advise?
thank you very much
She's trying to let you down easy. She probably didn't think the sex was all that good and she's just not feeling you. I wouldn't pursue her any further.
She's fumbling around and experimenting, indulging in sexual relationships willy-nilly (hopefully with protection?) and is probably not a good prospect for you right now. If you didn't use protection then you should be tested. If you really like her then stay friends on a casual basis but leave it at that.
i met this girl weeks ago,we ve been out few times, then we had sex, after the sex, i called her back, and talked again on internet, but she said she wants to be friends at this moment, she cant decide what she wants now. she said there are few men like her too, she cant decide now.
i really like her, i want a long term relationship with her.
what should i do now?
can anyone give me some advise?
thank you very much
Ummm....don't want to be harsh here but sounds like she didn't enjoy sex with you. Classic, yet gentle let down. I would move on because she is no longer interested in seeing you as a lover, a friend perhaps but don't think you'll be getting in her panties again.
She's fumbling around and experimenting, indulging in sexual relationships willy-nilly (hopefully with protection?) and is probably not a good prospect for you right now. If you didn't use protection then you should be tested. If you really like her then stay friends on a casual basis but leave it at that.
well used protection, acutally she said it first to use a protection
She's playing the field. She's not interested and trying to keep you around in the meantime. Be honest, tell her what you want. If she says she's not interested in a long term relationship, then she's not for you. Save yourself the trouble and clear the confusion now.
well she didnt refuse when i asked her out again.
and we are goin out tomorrow tonite. pro dinner, bowlin,then club.
and we also talk a lot on internet.
and i have told her what i want, she said she needs time to think, decide waht she wants ( which i know it is nt true
well she didnt refuse when i asked her out again.
and we are goin out tomorrow tonite. pro dinner, bowlin,then club.
and we also talk a lot on internet.
and i have told her what i want, she said she needs time to think, decide waht she wants ( which i know it is nt true
Sounds like you already know the answer to your question Continuing to see her so often while she's trying to decide between you and other guys is going to serve no purpose other than to hurt you. Maybe she will choose you. But what if she doesn't?
Honestly, it sounds like she's keeping you on the side "just in case." Is that what you want?
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Continuing to see her so often while she's trying to decide between you and other guys is going to serve no purpose other than to hurt you. Maybe she will choose you. But what if she doesn't? 
