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I also have a child and we are trying for another... My whole argument is if everything closes at 2 am and your mate has been gone since lets say 6pm that afternoon getting home by 3 am should not be a problem.
When my wife is out with her girl friends what time she comes home is up to her. She comes home when she wants to, I'm not her master. If she goes out of town and stays over night, thats okay too.
Well 2rugged4you , What time do you think is acceptable?
I think 3 A.M. is more than enough time for him to do what he wants to do! I would be in by 11-12 P.M. unless it was something special and discussed beforehand!
I would like to get everyone's opinion on this matter... If you are in a committed relationship and living together with your partner, What is the latest time a person should come home after hanging out with friends ? My personal opinion is anytime b4 3 am. Does anyone agree ?
Doesn't it depend on the circumstances and activity?
An intimate relationship is not supposed to take on aspects of parental one where one person orders the other person around you know.
Instead of having a hard and fast curfew or setting a deadline, the person going out should tell the one staying home when to expect them, not be told when to be expected - but they should come home when they stated they would.
Depends on what we agree on.
I do not have a set time. As long as she does not wake me up coming in I am cool.
she can stay away for days for that matter.
And if she wants to set me a time we probably will not be together long.
I would like to get everyone's opinion on this matter... If you are in a committed relationship and living together with your partner, What is the latest time a person should come home after hanging out with friends ? My personal opinion is anytime b4 3 am. Does anyone agree ?
you are an adult and grown....parents set a curfew for children
I also have a child and we are trying for another... My whole argument is if everything closes at 2 am and your mate has been gone since lets say 6pm that afternoon getting home by 3 am should not be a problem.
If I personally had a child by someone else, and that person was getting home at 3 a.m. after being gone since 6:00 p.m. the previous evening, I would be thinking that I am NOT in a good, solid relationship, and would be looking for other living arrangements.
I personally wouldn't be trying for another child. That would be insanity on my part.
Last edited by cricket_factor; 05-08-2010 at 11:25 AM..
I also have a child and we are trying for another... My whole argument is if everything closes at 2 am and your mate has been gone since lets say 6pm that afternoon getting home by 3 am should not be a problem.
Well you may have a problem if your SO is out partying with friends from 6pm until 3am in the morning. Where does he find time to spend with you and the child? And you are considering bringing another one into this set up? How often does he hang out with friends? If it's on a regular basis, sounds like he is not mature enough to take on a life of SO/kids and being on a curfew.
My husband and I don't set time limits on each other as we are both adults however, we are respectful of each other and know where our priorities lie. I would not be happy if he came home at 3am on a regular basis.
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I would be in by 11-12 P.M. unless it was something special and discussed beforehand!
How often does he hang out with friends? If it's on a regular basis, sounds like he is not mature enough to take on a life of SO/kids and being on a curfew. 
