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Too much stress is put on being a virgin; more needs to be put on safe sex, and sex education. As for the question on what sex results in not being a virgin the is answer is as simple as sex is sex. You just get over it and get on with your life.
I think there are cultures that did believe, like Clinton was rumored/joked to believe, that oral sex was not sex. So in those cultures males could "muck around with guys" a bit when they're single, but still be seen as virgins on their wedding day. I think among the Zulu or Xhosa or something "the fun of the road", sodomy but usually heterosexual sodomy I believe (Although Shaka may have swung more male-male), was seen as the way to avoid pre-marital sex and illegitimate birth. I sometimes wonder if that's part of why they have had problems in Southern Africa. If a person didn't think of that counting as sex maybe they didn't think about STDs before doing it. Although that's probably not the main factor or anything, maybe not a factor at all.
Anyway those cultures are not our culture. So no if you have had male-male sex you're no longer a virgin. (Unless maybe you came here from highland New Guinea or something)
Does the term virgin really matter? I know when I was younger I had this impression that the very second I lost my virginity that it would change my entire life forever. No beaming rays of light shone from the heavens and there was no sign blinking over my head that said "Here! Here! This man has just lost his virginity! Congratulate him if you see him!"
It didn't really change anything at all. Well, except for the fact that I was $20 poorer.
Well, a gal can have butt sex and still be a virgin but I would think that in the gay community if the guy claimed to be a virgin but had b-sex then that would be inaccurate.
Blackandgold51 my response is no to the virginity question as well.
a friend guy told me the very first time he had sex he yelled, screamed and kicked so much to the point he was actually glad nobody else was there....he said it would've probably scared the living daylights out of another person.
Dude virgin defloration is exclusive to the vagina
No, virginity is both symbolic and physical.
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Some deviants practice it.
Way to be a jerk, dude. But of course we expect no less coming from you, since it's glaringly obvious that you're a homophobe. There is nothing deviant about gay sex. The only thing deviant here is your attitude towards gays.
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