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Originally Posted by mathjak107
when your kids ,grandchildren and family are all where you are , moving away to save a few bucks is an option not alot of us would choose unless we had no choice.
i can't imagine not being a part of their lives and just being a vacation stop like our parents were to us and the kids.
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I agree. Moving away from family when retired is not a good idea in my experience. If you enjoy your children/grandchildren, why would you even consider it?
And when illness develops, a very bad idea. Had that situation, here, a few years ago with my aunt/uncle. Their kids had moved away decades ago. Parents would not/could not move near kids. A nightmare for the family when health problems developed. 88-90 y/o people trying to manage on their own.
It was just awful. The old folks can be seriously neglected, the distance is unfair and throws a guilt trip on the kids who have very busy lives a thousand miles away. Not good. Never will I live far from my son no matter my financial situation.