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Originally Posted by Sweaty in Texas
Where do you live now? Is it better?
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NJ, no better no worse than Maine. There are pros and cons in different aspects of each state that balance each other out.
The biggest difference is Maine advertises itself as this postcard state "The way life should be" only until you live there long enough to see the other side of life. I know a few kids that died for sniffing chemicals like gas or paint thinner for a cheap high in the extreme rural areas. I can see why people are lured to the extreme rural areas to have some peace and quiet and live off the land lifestyle which is what I was looking for.
Jersey has the same lifestyle of self sufficiency but it is intertwined with the robust social life style of a bigger city or town.
Politics are the same, there is a concrete wall between the two Maines proven by this past election, NJ it is intertwined throughout the state.
I have met someone in the Witness Protection Program in Portland ME and thought who else is living here. Worked with a guy who was growing pot in his attic and was filled with secrets exposing his hypocritical life.
I have family that lives in rural New Mexico and Los Angeles we have great family gatherings that I can't post here! I am still dead center which I believe most of this country is.
So to everyone doing research into small towns you have to go there and if everyone goes silent and watches when you enter a restaurant, think about how that makes you feel. That would be the indicator if that place is for you. It happens in city restaurants too.