Yes, the general answer is
Greenville - however, this is a 35 minute drive to Clemson. And (as you may already know) the city of
Clemson, SC, home to
Clemson University, has students/staff/professors from all over the country.
Please realize that the "South" is not the stereotypical image one gets from "the net" and Hollywood movies/television. Most areas are accepting of persons of all types and (yikes) even a few areas are "progressive". Gosh, even Clemson, SC is one of the few cities in the Upstate that has a smoking ban.
Congratulations on your job offer (especially in this economy). Clemson is a fantastic, safe, family-friendly area with access to some of the most amazing
lakes on the East Coast (Hartwell, Keowee, and Jocassee). Additionally, access to the mountains of NC (
and SC) is quite easy.
Your questions are more suited for the Greenville-Spartanburg sub-forum and I suggest the mod move this thread.