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I am now a 'married' white male, and have yet to live in DC. But, I have lived in NYC in the past as a 'single' white male. I wonder if DC is similar.
I'd be generic white looking - Irish/French Catholic lad. Nontheless, universally, white/asian is an easy mix - that's been the case everywhere I've ever been. After that, I found Carribbean-African or African-African...like Jamaican, Haitian, etc...who I absolutely ADORED dating. I was heavily involved with an Eritrean woman, and knowing that DC has Ethiopian...well, IF I were single, and I'm not anymore.
I found that Latino women in NYC generally preferred Latino men or black men. (Latino in NYC usually meant Puerto Rican or Dominican though - whereas DC it seems to mean El Salvodorean and no idea their dating preferences). Most African-American women had a preference for African-American men, with some exceptions, and at least in NYC, if they went 'white', they seemed to look for Italian - might have been a NY thing though.
I think from reading these other DC threads...NYC nightlife sounds kind of similar. A lot of guys in the clubs/bars, and even though NYC is great for dating...I found that bars/clubs were not. Internet dating was off the hook good though.
Anyways, more from a NYC perspective, but thought there might be some universalisms in there somewhere for DC as well.
I'm a bit curious how white guy/black girl plays out in DC...as I always liked that combination.
Avoid the clubs; like others have said they're sausagefests. If you want to meet women, go to an activity site like meetup.com and get involved in something you're interested in. The M/F ratio is usually much better and you'll have something in common. DC itself has more single women then men.
As far as DC women being 'inhuman', they're different than what most men are used to. Here they're ambitious, smart, confident, and don't take b.s. They can spot a player a mile away and will shut him down with no mercy. Don't be that guy.
Avoid the clubs; like others have said they're sausagefests. If you want to meet women, go to an activity site like meetup.com and get involved in something you're interested in. The M/F ratio is usually much better and you'll have something in common. DC itself has more single women then men.
As far as DC women being 'inhuman', they're different than what most men are used to. Here they're ambitious, smart, confident, and don't take b.s. They can spot a player a mile away and will shut him down with no mercy. Don't be that guy.
Most of this "single woman surplus" consists of over 50 women, though. I think for any given age range under like 50 (e.g. 30-34), there'll be more single guys than girls, although this is because men tend to marry down in age.
The clubs and bars are sausagefests. Problem with girls in groups is that you have to impress Every. Single. Girl. in the group and the odds of all of them accepting you are slim to none, and slim just left town.
Church and activities, at the least online fora with frequent meetups. If you just sit around and do nothing ... well, nothing will happen.
DC women may take no BS, but from what I've noticed they seem to see BS where there is no BS.
Of course if you got the game, you'll be able to do your macking pretty much anywhere. You'll be able to get two girls at the same time, without needing a million dollars. Of course if you had that level of game, you'd be busy drinking wine from two supermodel's navels and not posting here.
Of course if you got the game, you'll be able to do your macking pretty much anywhere. You'll be able to get two girls at the same time, without needing a million dollars. Of course if you had that level of game, you'd be busy drinking wine from two supermodel's navels and not posting here.
Umm. Not quite. Why would a Model or a Supermodel come to DC? To work for a non profit? or a congressman? Nope. Models want to be SEEN. So they go to places like Miami, LA or NYC. There's a reason why 5s and 6s act the way they do in this city. Its because there's not as much competition as there is in the cities I mentioned above.
I am now a 'married' white male, and have yet to live in DC. But, I have lived in NYC in the past as a 'single' white male. I wonder if DC is similar.
I'd be generic white looking - Irish/French Catholic lad. Nontheless, universally, white/asian is an easy mix - that's been the case everywhere I've ever been. After that, I found Carribbean-African or African-African...like Jamaican, Haitian, etc...who I absolutely ADORED dating. I was heavily involved with an Eritrean woman, and knowing that DC has Ethiopian...well, IF I were single, and I'm not anymore.
I found that Latino women in NYC generally preferred Latino men or black men. (Latino in NYC usually meant Puerto Rican or Dominican though - whereas DC it seems to mean El Salvodorean and no idea their dating preferences). Most African-American women had a preference for African-American men, with some exceptions, and at least in NYC, if they went 'white', they seemed to look for Italian - might have been a NY thing though.
I think from reading these other DC threads...NYC nightlife sounds kind of similar. A lot of guys in the clubs/bars, and even though NYC is great for dating...I found that bars/clubs were not. Internet dating was off the hook good though.
Anyways, more from a NYC perspective, but thought there might be some universalisms in there somewhere for DC as well.
I'm a bit curious how white guy/black girl plays out in DC...as I always liked that combination.
Pretty much the way you describe. Most of the black/white mix have been with immigrants, although it might change with the younger crowd. I also have realized that most black/white mix, the black female has a more natural look (natural hair/afro and on the darker side). And yes, Ethiopian ladies do date outside their race here too
My apologies for not being clearer. What I meant to ask was what the dating scene is like for single STRAIGHT white males? thanks though for the input on your experience. perhaps it will be useful for others on here that are like yourself.
From watching the You Tube video, the men in Miami are dumb also. No doubt about that.
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