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Old 01-01-2014, 02:06 PM
 
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Very odd question here but very concerning. If a female manager is always using the F word to a male supervisor in private constantly can it be considered sexual harassment?
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Old 01-01-2014, 02:09 PM
 
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Very odd question here but very concerning. If a female manager is always using the F word to a male supervisor in private constantly can it be considered sexual harassment?
Using it to the employee or at them? At any rate, It's way unprofessional. We often all get stress at work but keeping emotions under control and being focused are important.
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Old 01-01-2014, 02:09 PM
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not unless she is saying i want to **** you or lets ****...etc.

the word **** itself is not sexual harassment, however if someone made that claim im sure HR wouldnt be happy about it
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Old 01-01-2014, 02:12 PM
 
Location: NJ
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Hard to fathom unless the context is that she is saying she wants to F%@ them.

EDIT: I'm also not sure if gender should even come in to play here. What if it was a male using the word around another male? Or two females?
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Old 01-01-2014, 02:59 PM
 
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I agree. Context is critical here. Gender shouldn't play a role here unless the context suggest sexual act. It's just unprofessional language to use if not sexual related
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Old 01-01-2014, 03:27 PM
 
Location: East of Seattle since 1992, 615' Elevation, Zone 8b - originally from SF Bay Area
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It can still be legally considered harassment and grounds for a lawsuit, if it's offensive to anyone who overhears it. If someone asked her to stop using that work because it's offensive, and she continues, she is creating a work environment that is intimidating, hostile, or abusive.
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Old 01-01-2014, 03:55 PM
 
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Have you at least asked the manager to stop using that language in your presence? Most people will curb their behavior if they are told that they are being inappropriate.
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Old 01-01-2014, 03:58 PM
 
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It can still be legally considered harassment and grounds for a lawsuit, if it's offensive to anyone who overhears it. If someone asked her to stop using that work because it's offensive, and she continues, she is creating a work environment that is intimidating, hostile, or abusive.

Wouldn't it still have to touch on some "protected subject" or be impacting a 'protected class member" for it to be unlawful, rather than merely bothering someone else? For example, using racial slurs when talking to a coworker while within earshot of some else who is offended by the commentary? I was unaware that mere cursing alone was grounds for establishing a hostile work environment absent some unlawful underlying motive.
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Old 01-01-2014, 04:04 PM
 
Location: On the Chesapeake
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Any word with a sexual connotation can be considered sexual harassment. Use it on Monday and you're OK, the same word on Tuesday gets you a write up. The person with whom you're interacting doesn't have to be the one you offended but that person 20 feet away who overheard your private conversation was.
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Old 01-01-2014, 04:06 PM
 
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Any word with a sexual connotation can be considered sexual harassment. Use it on Monday and you're OK, the same word on Tuesday gets you a write up. The person with whom you're interacting doesn't have to be the one you offended but that person 20 feet away who overheard your private conversation was.

I understand that. I guess the issue here is really context. If it is being used in a context where people can reasonably draw a sexually connotation, then you could have a problem.
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