Please help me. I'm working with a coworker on a project at work that I ASKED to work on.
I'm interested in the work, but not the coworker. She is not the type of person I'd volunteer to spend time with. Very loud and obnoxious.
For some reason, she asked to accompany her to the gym last week so that I could show her around. I had NO desire to do this, but she kind of caught me by surprise. She said it loud and rudely, and I tried to demur. I definitely did NOT say yes, but she left before I could say NO. I left to go to the gym without her. She saw me and got VERY VERY angry. She is now interfering with my work on the project..has come to my desk TWICE to be nasty and rude etc.
What should I do? I want to make it CLEAR that I do not plan to spend any of my time outside of work with her, but I also want us to get our work done and help with the new process. Should I have a meeting? I'm planning to continue to be pleasant to her, but let it be clear that work is work.