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Old 02-19-2022, 06:39 PM
 
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I just found a job on my dreams and now I may have to quit because of my managers psycho jealous boyfriend. She tells her boyfriend. She tells him if you weren't around and I was a little younger I will have them for my boyfriend. 2 days after my manager tells me this the boyfriend calls me while I'm at work.

He's homeless and lives under a bridge and he has a criminal history along with his family.
My manager owes me money I will not pay me back and some of my things have been missing at work. Sometimes she'll ask me if she could borrow something and then she says I misplaced it.
Thanks.

Last edited by PJSaturn; 02-19-2022 at 11:10 PM.. Reason: Thread moved to W&E, and title edited.
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Old 02-19-2022, 07:11 PM
 
Location: Northeastern US
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Near as i can tell, you're a guy ... with a female manager ... who has a jealous homeless criminal boyfriend. This manager is hitting on you and stealing money and personal effects from you ... and your question is if you're "okay" to quit? I don't even understand the question. If you are accurately representing everything, the manager is unprofessional and seedy and you should quit without notice as far as I'm concerned, or she'll rob you blind.

Sounds like this job was "too good to be true" and you're going to have to find another one.
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Old 02-19-2022, 07:16 PM
 
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Yes it true. But it is a job of my dreams minus the BS. There are positives not all negative.
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Old 02-19-2022, 07:22 PM
 
Location: Northeastern US
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It is the job of your nightmares if the person you report to is unprofessional and dishonest and thieving. I don't see how it can work out. Is the manager the owner, or is there someone above her you can go to with your concerns? If yes, I don't think you have anything to lose by trying that.
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Old 02-19-2022, 07:30 PM
 
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No she's not the owner and this happens to everyone that they hire. Everyone leavea abruptly because of the manager.

I literally just started this job and I put a lot of work into getting it. And for me to leave because of this I feel like I'm going to be the loser. I'm learning a trade and I don't plan on staying with this job forever. But if I leave a month into it.
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Old 02-19-2022, 07:31 PM
 
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Thanks for all the replies!
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Old 02-19-2022, 07:33 PM
 
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I wouldn't say it's a nightmare just yet but there's potential. We just had somebody kill someone at work in the news last night because of a jealous significant other. I don't know if that was a sign for me.
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Old 02-20-2022, 06:45 AM
 
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I would get out. But that's just me.

I'd find another dream job. It's out there somewhere.
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Old 02-20-2022, 07:52 AM
 
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Let's see, you have a psych thieving boss with a psycho boyfriend who bothers you at work, and you want to know if it is okay to leave? Is that correct?
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Old 02-20-2022, 08:22 AM
 
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^^ Don't forget someone was just killed at work because of a jealous significant other.
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