Every year for my past 40 years I have salt petered around give up this or that carbs,swearing, men what ever. None of these things stuck true. In reality and to my credit I never gave anything deadly or important up. All the years past I suppose my life was relatively simple go out look for soul mate rinse repeat. This year I have discovered something fine. I am important, important by way of knowing I don't mean a bloody thing to anyone and never ever will. That all the things I learned in the...