Originally Posted by animalcrazy

I totally get where you're coming from. He was wrong to dictate to you who your friends can and can not be. Just as the same applies to you. Look, we can not help who we are attracted too intellectually. I have an 80 year old male friend as well as those in our age group. I think the issue is more about trust for you and him. Once you figure that out, things will be better. He did not foster that trust by going behind your back to have a lunch with his coworker, but what was he supposed to