Here I am, 51, and at a complete loss to understand what is next in life. My husband and I completely disrupted our lives about 11 months ago and moved across country to follow a wonderful career opportunity for me. However, now I wonder how wise was that decision. We have struggled to make connections in a city/state which boast a demographic of 80% white. Connecting to the type of "warm, embracing" black community is very tough and we are beginning to fold into ourselves. Not good!...