Single Black women of Chicago- What's the dating scene like? (high school, quality of life)

[Special1]

Originally Posted by Humboldt1

Special,

You clearly did not ride the short bus to school and from your posts are attractive and I can tell articulate.

You need to try speed dating. You get all professionals and they even group it by age and interest.

I ultimately met my girlfriend a different way but it was good practice and much better than the internet. In the first 3 minutes you can tell a lot about a person and whether or not you want to see them again.

I am sure they have events all over the city, though most of them will be on the north side. If a guy is not into you or you are not into them, no big deal. You only spent 3 minutes and there are another 20 people you will meet in the next hour or so.

I like that idea, I've considered it - I think I'll actually give speed dating a chance! Nothing to loose.

[Becsters]

Why do you want to date a White guy?? XP

[urza216]

Originally Posted by Becsters

Why do you want to date a White guy?? XP

Because I can be very charming.

[linicx]

Okay, so I'm curious and I did a search in Chicago Meetup groups. I found just about every type of meetup group possible except black and white social grouple. After 400 years it is still taboo. If people don't talk to each other the great divide will never close.

[Chicago South Sider]

Originally Posted by linicx

Okay, so I'm curious and I did a search in Chicago Meetup groups. I found just about every type of meetup group possible except black and white social grouple. After 400 years it is still taboo. If people don't talk to each other the great divide will never close.

Even if you were born yesterday you wouldn't live to see that 'divide' closed.

[3divina]

Originally Posted by linicx

Okay, so I'm curious and I did a search in Chicago Meetup groups. I found just about every type of meetup group possible except black and white social grouple. After 400 years it is still taboo. If people don't talk to each other the great divide will never close.

They do talk to each other, just not necessarily based on black and white racial relations.

And you could always create a black and white social group yourself.

[linicx]

Yeah I know, but one can always hope for the best.

Originally Posted by Chicago South Sider

Even if you were born yesterday you wouldn't live to see that 'divide' closed.

[linicx]

If I was younger and still lived in Chicago I would. .

Originally Posted by 3divina

They do talk to each other, just not necessarily based on black and white racial relations.

And you could always create a black and white social group yourself.

[stephei2000]

Originally Posted by 3divina

They do talk to each other, just not necessarily based on black and white racial relations.

And you could always create a black and white social group yourself.

The funny thing was there was one and I was a member. It was called SWM and SBF or something like that. However, it became shut down and it was mostly black females with about four men. Go figure

[desperad0stl]

Hmm I'm an interracial baby (Black mom & Mexican Dad).
Dunno if Latinos are your thing but black, white, and latino are almost evenly split at about 30% of the population apiece.

I grew up in St. Louis and there werent many Latinas (I was usually the only person with a bit of latin blood for miles lol) I only had white and black women to choose from I love all women of all backgrounds and I love to mix it up.

But I dont see the sistas mixin it up too much! Keep an open mind to everything and you'll get your way