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Originally Posted by Verna Perry
Thank you for opening up your heart and sharing it with us...Love you... ...you seem like a very gentle soul...very refreshing...God bless you.
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Your welcome. I left out some major things that God brought me through because I didn't have time,but I can share a little because I feel that it will be ok to share.
Well, while I was in college my brother passed and I was left devastated. I mean literally. My brother was like a father to me, because my earthly father wasn't really in my life. My brother passed the day before my classes started. I was left depressed, and felt like I couldn't go on. I struggled to go to class, I didn't want to speak to anyone, I just wanted to die with my brother. He was my brother, my father, and the person that I leaned the most on. But God wanted me to learn to lean on Him more than anyone.
So, I would go to my school psychologist and would talk to him and I was on anti-depressants. The funny thing was my major of psychology. Nothing was working. And on top of that I would having dreams of my brother, which made it worse. This was my last semester in school and I didn't think that I was going to graduate.
Now, at the same time their was a custody battle between my brother's two daughters. My mom was trying to get the girls and my brothers wife was trying to keep them from us. So, that was really hurting me because I felt like I lost my brother and my two nieces, because she wouldn't let me see them. So, my depression got worse.
My brother's wife was and still is a really mean person. She told me that I was adopted which I didn't know. My mom was never going to tell me. So, now I am in my last semester trying to graduate, my brother has died, I wasn't allowed to see my nieces, then I was told that I was adopted because my real parents gave me up.
So, I was at my lowest in depression. I was so sick that I thought that I just couldn't go on. Then I really learned who God was and that He cared for me. I said to myself the school psychologist can't help me, and the anti-depressants want help me either.
So, I turned to God and almost instantly my depression was gone, I graduated and I could finally smile that my brother was not suffering anymore. I was happy for the first time in a long time. And as for my brother's wife, I said God if it is in your will for me to see my nieces then you will work it out. Then I received a phone call from her apologizing to me for what she did and told me that I could see my nieces any time that I wanted. I was like ok God I understand what you are doing in my life.
And when I would think about my brother, God replaced my hurting heart with love and joy. So, God protected me and surrounded me with His love the moment I said ok God please help me in this situation. Before I was trying to heal myself with my school doctor and with anti-depressants and it wasn't working. I think that if I would have went on that way, I might not be here today. Because satan really tried to kill me, and feeled my mind with suicidal thoughts. I was never a suicidal person, but I hit rock bottom and the thoughts came so strong that I couldn't control them.
satan was really trying to kill me. I even cut my wrist because I was so depressed. But their was something inside of me that wouldn't allow me to cut to deep and I know that it was God. And as soon as I turned to God, all the pain and hurt went away. I was so amazed at how fast things changed. I mean I am here today smiling, laughing and having the best time of my life because God protected me and wouldn't allow the devil to kill me.
So, that is why I say that I came to God and have been with Him every sence. I know I can't make it without God because, God is the one that protects me daily. I tried to do it on my on and almost died. I understand that God allowed me to try to fix myself, but He wanted me to see that I couldn't do it on my on.
So, I went from being lonely, depressed, the devil trying to kill me, to learning that I was adopted, not seeing my nieces, to feeling joy, laughing in the devils face, accepting that I was adopted to trying to find my real parent.
Even though my brother's x wife did what she did. I still love her and tell her that if she ever needs me then I am here for her. The funny thing is she doesn't have anyone around her that really cares for her. I am the only person that actually wants to help her and try to bring her to Christ.
Now I must say this when my brother died their actually was some speculation that she did something that caused my brother to die. I even think that she did, but she had my brother body cremated, so we really don't know. The only reason we think that was because he was ok when we saw him, and when he died she kept saying I don't want an autopsy.
I use to think about her and thinking what if she killed my brother, but I soon, know this. If she did God will handle her and I don't have anything to worry about. Even though I think this, I am still able to look at her and say, God loves you and I will forgive her even if I find out that she did something. I'm not going to worry about it God will deal with her according to what she has done. I look at her life now and see how things are going in her life and it doesn't look good.
I know that God brought me through this for a reason and I love my Heavenly Father every day for Him not leaving me.
But God brought me through all of that and I am here to say that God is real because if He wasn't I would either be crazy or dead.
I was actually a little skeptical as if I should tell some of the things that I have been through, but I have this feeling that someone might need to read what God can do and how He can feel a hurting heart with love and joy, that use to have nothing but pain and suffering.
I want say anymore, but that is only the tip of the iceburg of what I have been through. God is amazing!!!!!!!!!!!