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Old 07-21-2015, 09:35 AM
 
Location: Wonderland
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Yes it's a discussion forum and I was merry stating that IMHO, it really pathetic for someone with no dog in the fight to be so obsessed with this issue.
My ex husband cheated on me, with women he met online on gambling forums. He would go meet them at casinos when I thought he was working.

Also, my husband's ex wife cheated on him as well. So we REALLY appreciate the trusting relationship that we have built and share together.

So yeah, I have a "dog in the fight" so to speak - I've lived through the emotional devastation of adultery and I know the pain it causes in families.
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Old 07-21-2015, 09:40 AM
 
Location: Wonderland
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30-60% percent of you posting here are probably cheaters/ That includes the ones claiming they dislike cheaters or say it is wrong.

Mirror time.
I don't have to look in a mirror to know that I've never cheated on anyone - not a boyfriend, not a husband. No one.
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Old 07-21-2015, 09:44 AM
 
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I can't wait to see the list to see how many of my co-workers are on it. The one's that gush on forever about their perfect marriages.
Full list hasn't been even released yet I doubt they will release it thou
If they do prepare for lots of heartbreaks and drama over the world
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Old 07-21-2015, 09:47 AM
 
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Full list hasn't been even released yet I doubt they will release it thou
If they do prepare for lots of heartbreaks and drama over the world
Why would you want it released? Let's say you're the husband or wife of someone who went on that site. Would you REALLY want your private dirty laundry exposed for everyone to see? That's nobody's business but your own & your significant others.
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Old 07-21-2015, 09:49 AM
 
Location: Wonderland
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Why would you want it released? Let's say you're the husband or wife of someone who went on that site. Would you REALLY want your private dirty laundry exposed for everyone to see? That's nobody's business but your own & your significant others.
Right. Plural.

Don't get me wrong. I think hacking into ANY site is ethically wrong. I just have less sympathy for the ones on this site who were hacked.

They must have forgotten about one significant other that we all have - named Karma. Try as we may, we can't seem to dump this broad. She's very persistent.
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Old 07-21-2015, 09:53 AM
 
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Right. Plural.

Don't get me wrong. I think hacking into ANY site is ethically wrong. I just have less sympathy for the ones on this site who were hacked.

They must have forgotten about one significant other that we all have - named Karma. Try as we may, we can't seem to dump this broad. She's very persistent.
Again, if your husband had gone on that site, would you want that information announced to the whole world? All of your friends now knowing about it? No, I guarantee 100% you wouldn't. So you might want to save that "I have no sympathy" act. You never know.
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Old 07-21-2015, 09:56 AM
 
Location: Southern California
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Again, if your husband had gone on that site, would you want that information announced to the whole world? All of your friends now knowing about it? No, I guarantee 100% you wouldn't. So you might want to save that "I have no sympathy" act. You never know.
You say as if everyone who is being cheated on knows it and it being posted would just be airing your dirty laundry. If my significant other is cheating on me I'd want to know and if it takes something like his for me to find out then so be it. Am I supposed to just not care if my SO is cheating on me. What I know doesn't hurt me I guess!
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Old 07-21-2015, 10:00 AM
 
Location: Round Rock, Texas
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And what's wrong with that ?
Heck,life is too short to go long periods without doing what the good Lord put us on this earth to do.
I'm happily married and getting plenty in the boudoir department thanks very much but I don't blame anyone in a sexless marriage for wanting a bit on the side. You just gotta be prepared to accept the consequences if you're found out.
I'll reiterate, if sex is one of the most important things for someone, be a man/woman about it and leave instead of sneaking around like a child. No intercourse is not an excuse for cheating. Let's say if a man can't get it up anymore or sex becomes increasingly difficult as a woman ages. Or people have medical conditions that make sex more arduous than pleasurable. That gives the other, non-impaired spouse the right to commit adultery? I'd like to think that my marriage has a lot more substance than just writhing around under sheets. And I'm saying this as someone who also gets her share of sex. But if my husband can't have sex any more, I'd never even think about hitting some random dick. I'd rather pleasure myself. In addition, no intercourse does not mean no intimacy.
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Old 07-21-2015, 10:03 AM
 
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Why would you want it released? Let's say you're the husband or wife of someone who went on that site. Would you REALLY want your private dirty laundry exposed for everyone to see? That's nobody's business but your own & your significant others.
Exactly
Any dirty business you have going on is better kept privately between you and your spouse
Hackers really think this kind of s h i t will do any good no its goin to spread havoc and chaos with that list released not to mention if your on that list it can create trust issues when you find someone else or are in a relationship or married
Heck some people on that site may be fake single or used it before starting a relationship
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Old 07-21-2015, 10:08 AM
 
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